I don't want to get into a pissing match here, but let me answer your question on how are the two programs are different: While they may be somewhat similar this year, you are excited to have a team that might actually dance this year and we expect to have a team that dances every year. We are thinking a final four is not out of reach and a sweet 16 is almost expected. You would be happy to just make the tourny and have really no expectation of a final four and a sweet 16 would be huge.
We were where you are once and we climbed the mountain. You haven't and the odds are that you won't. If you do, great, but please don't get all excited about one year where you might finally dance and hope to pull in some top recruits where you are not the really even the leader but more an afterthought. Again, if you get them great - you're stepping up, but until it happens, it's best to keep thoughts of greatness in check.