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If you haven't noticed by now we have a lot of mean girl posters in this forum.Being marginalized damm that's serious fleud.
If you haven't noticed by now we have a lot of mean girl posters in this forum.Being marginalized damm that's serious fleud.
Or, alternately, stop acting like a bozo.
They're both egregious ( and yes I'm guilty of making unsubstantiated claims). It's just easier to hide behind generalities. The logical counter argument to both generalized and specific aspects to an argument is to ask someone to prove something wrong when asked to prove something right. But of course an unstated claim has the defense that it never put out a claim. Except even that defense has flaws. If a child is being molested and no one makes a claim how is that non claim morally superior than an "unproven" accusation which may or may not be true?To get back to ethics and character, it is easy to have them on paper. Having them when you can easily get away with something is the true test.
Saying Squid is slimy, which I do pretty often, is different from saying Squid committed x infraction without proof is a more egregious.
To continue on topic no new news on Zach!Ugh. Can we get back to Brown and stop coddling people who refuse to have nuance in their opinions? Yeah, the guy has been getting criticized by people consistently, but its because he consistently puts forth false dilemmas and speculation as fact. It's the sort of frustrating argument we've grown accustomed to on TV and radio, but is utterly vapid. Getting into this sort of conversation doesn't really help anyone. Let's just agree to move on.
So, Zach Brown?
You on the other hand have exceeded my interest quota.![]()
No new news on Zach Brown but some potentially good news recently posted about Vance Jackson by HooperScooper if you're interested.I can't tell but I think you are bullying me. Could you clarify that for me? I'd like to know if I should cry.
Really! Your put in timeout!They're both egregious ( and yes I'm guilty of making unsubstantiated claims). It's just easier to hide behind generalities. The logical counter argument to both generalized and specific aspects to an argument is to ask someone to prove something wrong when asked to prove something right. But of course an unstated claim has the defense that it never put out a claim. Except even that defense has flaws. If a child is being molested and no one makes a claim how is that non claim morally superior than an "unproven" accusation which may or may not be true?
Most arguments can't be proved conclusively if we have to rely on humanity to decide in the truth or falseness of things. It's the reason I prefer discourse over censorship. It has a better chance of solving problems even if those problems can never be solved completely.
I think this is very freeing commentary . Act; don't react. I don't have to go to every fight I'm invited to. How important is it? Do I want to have someone taking up space in my head? I once heard that the definition of strife was "one-upmanship". If I take the bait (and I am not referring to anyone on this board......these are principles I had to learn the hard way....pain) I'm on the hook. It sometimes takes a long time to let go when all one has done is react for a long time. Insanity....doing the same thing over and over again and expecting the outcome to be different.Having a good memory is not the problem. It's letting negative things affect us negatively. It's a wiring habit that can almost always be undone. Every person has something that triggers a negative response. The key is to control that response. It shouldn't be done to be politically correct or to pretend we're measured when we're not. Those solutions have some benefit and can be starting places but they don't offer a lasting solution or a solution with depth. We can selectively retrain ourselves and retain that part of us which serves us and others better and reduce or remove that part or parts of us that does the opposite.
There is a poster in this forum who has made an incredible shift in his nature. And where at one time he was argumentative to the extreme, and was uncomfortable if not disliked by other posters, has realized that he can retain his beautiful passionate self ( I think he's one of the most beautifully passionate people in this forum), state his position, and realize that if or when others are unwilling to agree with him he moves on. It's not that he's backing down. He realizes he doesn't have to win every argument. He realizes that winning every argument is impossible. In the thread where people listed who were their top ten posters he made several peoples lists. I was so happy for him. Not because of the popularity contest but because his change is a healthy change and even people who don't go to the depth of trying to understand human nature to the degree I feel compelled to do recognized his transformation.
There is a poster in this forum who has made an incredible shift in his nature. And where at one time he was argumentative to the extreme, and was uncomfortable if not disliked by other posters, has realized that he can retain his beautiful passionate self ( I think he's one of the most beautifully passionate people in this forum)
I can't tell but I think you are bullying me. Could you clarify that for me? I'd like to know if I should cry.
Wasn't referring to Fishy in the post you quoted.Do you have a crush on Fishy?
Yea, if we can just keep @mauconnfan from talking about Brimah he'll finally be rehabilitated.Not a crush but I think he's a person who I consider anointed - a special soul albeit he sometimes shows a less than special behavior now and then.
Or OTT women's bb posters.Yea, if we can just keep @mauconnfan from talking about Brimah he'll finally be rehabilitated.
But he has made tremendous strides which I think has done him a lot of good. Of course right after I made the post referencing him he targeted that women's poster for the comparison of Geno and Wooden and I said to myself there you go jinxing things. It's why I'm a person who finds himself saying "knock on wood" or we are DOOOOOOMMMMED!!! because invariably if I proclaim something positive the proverbial dung starts flying.Yea, if we can just keep @mauconnfan from talking about Brimah he'll finally be rehabilitated.
I can't tell if fleud was serious or running with my joke. Either way I love it.Tough crowd WTF
And I was hoping you could help me decide!I can't tell if fleud was serious or running with my joke. Either way I love it.
@Fishy it's the Thursday before first night. This is the peak of withdrawal season. It's almost over.

That would work sj![]()
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