I'm not saying I feel good about losing a close bowl, but I would be pretty PO'd if every big game my team played in they got absolutely murdered in, and every other fan base expected my team to get pantsed in those games every time.
ND fan here. The Irish went 10-1, beat Clemson and made the playoffs. Not bad.
Other fans somehow want me to feel bad about that. No sale.
ND is 43-7 in the last four seasons with two playoff berths. Lots of programs would like to have that level of success.
I recall the days of Ty Willingham and Charlie Weis. I also recall ND going 4-8 in 2016.
So, while I definitely wanted ND to beat Clemson again, I ain't crying. ND has come a long way since then.
I am pretty happy where the program is, compared to where it was in say, 2008 (7-6), when UConn and Syracuse were beating ND at home. (ND has won 24 straight games at home now).
Clemson and Alabama are on a different level, but Brian Kelly (102-38 at ND) has done a good job at ND, especially since 2016.
He struggles in big games against elite teams like Alabama and Clemson, but has elevated ND into that next level right below them and has 3 undefeated regular seasons, a BCS title game and two playoff berths since 2012.
He may never win a title at ND, but he has improved the program in a number of ways, recruiting, training table, strength and conditioning, etc... and has the program set up well for his successor.
So, while getting beat in big games ain't fun, I have been enjoying ND's resurgence since 2016.