Don't you realize this would be a major story if it was the same circumstances in the mens game? If Calhoun wrote that tweet about Kyle Lowry and then Lowry went and hit a Kemba like shot to end Calhoun's perfect season and stop him from winning another national championship, Calhoun would get trashed and rightfully so.
It would be a storyline (not a major story, more a footnote) if Ogunbowale mentioned it or was asked about it and said she remembered this very well. But since ND has played UConn presumably at least once a year since, my guess is the ship has sailed and her team winning the game was 100% of the focus. A vendetta about a tweet from 2014 wasn't a motivating factor, on her mind etc.. My guess is they buried the hatchet on this during her freshman year.
Importantly I'm sure she liked her 2nd game winner better sans the 'revenge' storyline.
Player hits two game winning shots in back-to-back final four games and this is your #1 hot take? Continuing this argument is intense grudge holding, and this side of Michael Jordan I just don't think basketball players are thinking about that stuff on the court, especially with respect to coaches.
Geno & Calhoun are/were imperfect in different ways - fans of both teams love their coach very loyally also in different ways. This is a good common UConn fan trait.