I should preface this with: I don't even like Boston that much. It's not in the top 10 cities I'd live in (of the ones I've been for more than a few weeks). So I'm not barracking for Boston at all.
There are also the best restaurants in the world, the best museums, the best shows, the best musicians, the best minds in finance, law, fashion, etc., a gigantic collection of interesting people who come from every corner of the world.
That's a view. only a New Yorker could take:
Best fashion cities: Paris and Milan
Best Museums: Athens/Rome/Paris rate just as highly. No where on the planet compares to the Louvre.
Best Food cities: Tokyo, Paris, Barcelona/Madrid/San Sebastian, Lima all consistently rate higher than NYC. Perhaps NYC has the most diverse culinary options, but we are talking best here.
Best Music: It might struggle to be in the top 5 in the US, never mind the world. Austin, Nashville, New Orleans, and some toss up of Memphis/Seattle/Atlanta/Chicago.
Finance:
Shows: I've no idea but I imagine some European cities compare quite favorably.
Law: I've no idea
Universities: No. Boston absolutely crushes NYC.
What you could say is it might have the best collection of all those things together. I'm not gonna do the research though.
Like I said, it's not for everyone. It's very expensive. It's not the place to be if you value quiet, hate crowds, or need a lot of personal space. To me, the nice Connecticut town I grew up in doesn't hold a candle to it. Yet I don't go around telling people who live in the suburbs or rural areas that I'd be bored to death in their podunk town, (I'm replying to your post, CD, but that's not aimed at you. I know you're just repeating an anecdote.)
Agreed on CT towns. Boring as all get out from somebody who was raised in one. CT mostly blows.
I will say that, it's universally acknowledged that NYers are a tough breed. Which is commendable. But it also bolsters my point that it is a tough place to live.
I spoke about air quality in another post, and it jogged my memory of something I posted elsewhere. NOT using this to make a point at all, but just a friendly PSA, as you obviously live in NYC:
Just made me think of it, but a PSA for those who spent time working in that area of NYC in the aftermath:
You should get yourself regularly screened for cancer. Even if you were in an office, school, or what have you. The air was truly toxic for months.
Obviously always best to catch it early if you can.