I don't begrudge RU their "success" at all. They won the lottery and it will become increasingly apparent for them athletically and academically. I wish it were us, but good for them.
I was born and lived in Connecticut most of my life, but attended Rutgers in the late 60's. Until then UConn was the team for which I rooted, especially basketball.
Several years before it was announced I told my son, a big UConn fan, that Rutgers would be in the B1G. He scoffed.
I've since told him that I believe UConn will eventually be there as well. Good luck to you guys. You deserve, and will earn, a better conference.