When I was a kid playing Pop Warner, back in the late 60's,
the head coach would take you by the face mask and rattle your
head and teeth around. Not saying it was right, but he was good guy and
a really good coach and cared about the kids. I obviously still remember him fondly.
How do Calhoun's former players view him? That is the acid test. He seems to pass that one with flying colors.
We now view everything thru the prism of litigation, our loss.
I once read a book called Jurgen. A fantasy offering. Anyway Jurgen ends up in heaven and has to leave because he was bored to distraction. He begs Ole Nick to take him back.
Everything now is antiseptic, woefully repetitious and unforgivably uninteresting.
We legislate behavior. How sad
All due respect to a boneyard brother, this right/wrong, good coaching/bad coaching, players like him and respond, etc, conversation, totally misses the point (BTW, I had both kinds of coaches, and I always responded better to the ones that offered acknowledgment and guidance over threats and criticism. Totally depends on the player. At this point in my life, I'll take good coaching in whatever form I can find it).
It's about media perception, and what's the current cultural climate, and not even about this particular incident. This kind of snow gets out on talk radio and the blogs, and it gets a life of it's own. JC is generally seen as an evil bully outside of CT, and it's predictable that Coach will do this again, or worse, if nothing changes. People would love to take him down, and prevent him from joining the 4+ club, and at this stage of his life, there aint no time for a comeback. Just like Woody Hayes, and all the others, he'd be remembered not for his NC's and his character, but for the defining moment of that last behavior.