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With a heavy heart, I'm saddened to report the passing of the patriarch of the DM family

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Very, very sorry for your loss. As a stranger, I didn't know your father, but the fact that he was a WWII veteran tells me all I need to know about the man. Very few men and women like your Father still with us. A great loss to your family and our country alike.
 
Condolences DM. It's funny how manny of us are faceless people to one another but yet within this crazy forum that brought all of us here because of a a common bond we bear a little bit of ourselves enough to feel both the sadness and happiness of the others' life. God bless and peace to your family.
 
Thanks for sharing your memories and thoughts, especially on the roof rake event. Sometimes humor can be one of our best memories. In my case, my Dad was a life long Sox fan and to this day my fondest memories are those days we spent at Fenway. My condolences to you and your family.
 
With a heavy heart, I want to share with my Boneyard family that Patriarch of the DM family passed away this morning. He was a World War II vet who would have turned 93 this coming August. My daughter, son and I were schedule to visit him in Montgomery AL at the end of the month. He lived a long a happy life. We had thought we lost him about 6 weeks ago, but he bounced back like one of our great UConn point guards, and actually played golf a couple times before he went into the hospital again. Team DogNabbit, the two time Boneyard Classic champions, thanks partly to my high handicap, ;) would have been proud to have him on our team. Even in his 90s, I'm pretty sure I still would not have been able to beat him. By the way, he too was a writer, for those wondering where my propensity for long posts comes from.

I was afraid that he was going to pass away yesterday, the same day we received the wonderful news that Sterling Gibbs chose UConn for his 5th and final year. I didn't want to cast any sadness to what was a happy day for Husky Nation. Since I knew what was looming, it did understandably take some of the joy personally out of the Gibbs' news.

One quick story that I felt might bring a smile to some since we all have dads and hopeful fond memories: Many years ago back when I was a teenager, I walked into the house holding this long aluminum handle and proceeded to tell my Dad that the rest of the roof rake was stuck on the roof and that bolt and wing nut that held it to the other end were missing somewhere in the deep snow. Somewhat angry he said, "You should have made sure the wing nut was tightened!" I then asked him, "Well how did you know that?" He paused and then replied, "Because the same thing happened to me!" We both began to laugh, realizing how funny that whole situation and conversation went down.

Like all Dads, he wasn't perfect. But he was a good husband to my mom, and after she passed, to his current widow, a good dad, and a very good man. He will be missed.

Anyhow, I wanted to share this news with my fellow Boneyard friends. Similar to family where you share happy and sad times, don't always get along, though usually do, the Boneyard is like a second family to many of us. My immediate family and most of my extended family aren't UConn fans, so it's here where I go to share my thoughts, feelings, impeccably accurate analysis :rolleyes:, and rare but occasional crow eating, the few times I'm...gulp...well...wrong, when it comes to all things UConn Hoops.

I'm now looking forward to the 2015/16 team raise up banner #5 on the walls of HGP to turn the page on what was a challenging year for our team and household, and to a new one filled with great celebration. Okay, 2015 wasn't all that bad. The Pats, who are my and my Dad's team, took the air out of other NFL teams by becoming XLIX Super Bowl champs. Don't anyone dare add a negative Pats' deflategate reply to this thread! This one is all about my dad. Yeah, that's a low blow for those Patriot Haters, but deal!! :D

Stu,

my sincere condolences on the passing of your Dad. I am sure you will smile many times daily thinking of all the pleasant memories your Dad gave you.

God bless you and your family.

Steve85
 
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I'm so sorry for your loss. It sounds like your dad had an amazing life, and he'll always be with you.
 
92 and still out hitting golfballs?

Nicely done, Mr. G.

Very sorry for your loss, Stu.
 
Sorry for your loss, DM.

Sounds like your dad had a great, full and long life. Sign me up for that.

I hope you and your family find peace in his passing.
 
Sorry to hear about your Dad. Lost mine last year. Have to say, at least for us, it hasn't gotten better.
 
Sorry to hear DM. Sounds like he was a great dad, friend and golf partner so he will be missed. At 92 he had a great run I am sure.

Thoughts and prayers to you and your family
 
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With a heavy heart, I want to share with my Boneyard family that Patriarch of the DM family passed away this morning. He was a World War II vet who would have turned 93 this coming August. My daughter, son and I were schedule to visit him in Montgomery AL at the end of the month. He lived a long a happy life. We had thought we lost him about 6 weeks ago, but he bounced back like one of our great UConn point guards, and actually played golf a couple times before he went into the hospital again. Team DogNabbit, the two time Boneyard Classic champions, thanks partly to my high handicap, ;) would have been proud to have him on our team. Even in his 90s, I'm pretty sure I still would not have been able to beat him. By the way, he too was a writer, for those wondering where my propensity for long posts comes from.

I was afraid that he was going to pass away yesterday, the same day we received the wonderful news that Sterling Gibbs chose UConn for his 5th and final year. I didn't want to cast any sadness to what was a happy day for Husky Nation. Since I knew what was looming, it did understandably take some of the joy personally out of the Gibbs' news.

One quick story that I felt might bring a smile to some since we all have dads and hopeful fond memories: Many years ago back when I was a teenager, I walked into the house holding this long aluminum handle and proceeded to tell my Dad that the rest of the roof rake was stuck on the roof and that bolt and wing nut that held it to the other end were missing somewhere in the deep snow. Somewhat angry he said, "You should have made sure the wing nut was tightened!" I then asked him, "Well how did you know that?" He paused and then replied, "Because the same thing happened to me!" We both began to laugh, realizing how funny that whole situation and conversation went down.

Like all Dads, he wasn't perfect. But he was a good husband to my mom, and after she passed, to his current widow, a good dad, and a very good man. He will be missed.

Anyhow, I wanted to share this news with my fellow Boneyard friends. Similar to family where you share happy and sad times, don't always get along, though usually do, the Boneyard is like a second family to many of us. My immediate family and most of my extended family aren't UConn fans, so it's here where I go to share my thoughts, feelings, impeccably accurate analysis :rolleyes:, and rare but occasional crow eating, the few times I'm...gulp...well...wrong, when it comes to all things UConn Hoops.

I'm now looking forward to the 2015/16 team raise up banner #5 on the walls of HGP to turn the page on what was a challenging year for our team and household, and to a new one filled with great celebration. Okay, 2015 wasn't all that bad. The Pats, who are my and my Dad's team, took the air out of other NFL teams by becoming XLIX Super Bowl champs. Don't anyone dare add a negative Pats' deflategate reply to this thread! This one is all about my dad. Yeah, that's a low blow for those Patriot Haters, but deal!! :D
 
DM sorry for your loss and sorry you missed an opportunity to visit with your Dad one more time. Time will make the memories more endearing.

Always enjoy your posts. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
 
Sorry to hear such sad news… Godspeed to your Dad on his next journey… Be well
 
Thanks for sharing DM and sincere condolences. Another one of the greatest generation that we are very thankful for.
 
Dogmania we have never met but I have always enjoyed your posts. Thanks for sharing your stories about your dad. Very sorry for your loss but it sounds like he had a heck of a full life all the way up to the end. May you and your family continue to celebrate his memory.
 
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With a heavy heart, I want to share with my Boneyard family that Patriarch of the DM family passed away this morning. He was a World War II vet who would have turned 93 this coming August. My daughter, son and I were schedule to visit him in Montgomery AL at the end of the month. He lived a long a happy life. We had thought we lost him about 6 weeks ago, but he bounced back like one of our great UConn point guards, and actually played golf a couple times before he went into the hospital again. Team DogNabbit, the two time Boneyard Classic champions, thanks partly to my high handicap, ;) would have been proud to have him on our team. Even in his 90s, I'm pretty sure I still would not have been able to beat him. By the way, he too was a writer, for those wondering where my propensity for long posts comes from.

I was afraid that he was going to pass away yesterday, the same day we received the wonderful news that Sterling Gibbs chose UConn for his 5th and final year. I didn't want to cast any sadness to what was a happy day for Husky Nation. Since I knew what was looming, it did understandably take some of the joy personally out of the Gibbs' news.

One quick story that I felt might bring a smile to some since we all have dads and hopeful fond memories: Many years ago back when I was a teenager, I walked into the house holding this long aluminum handle and proceeded to tell my Dad that the rest of the roof rake was stuck on the roof and that bolt and wing nut that held it to the other end were missing somewhere in the deep snow. Somewhat angry he said, "You should have made sure the wing nut was tightened!" I then asked him, "Well how did you know that?" He paused and then replied, "Because the same thing happened to me!" We both began to laugh, realizing how funny that whole situation and conversation went down.

Like all Dads, he wasn't perfect. But he was a good husband to my mom, and after she passed, to his current widow, a good dad, and a very good man. He will be missed.

Anyhow, I wanted to share this news with my fellow Boneyard friends. Similar to family where you share happy and sad times, don't always get along, though usually do, the Boneyard is like a second family to many of us. My immediate family and most of my extended family aren't UConn fans, so it's here where I go to share my thoughts, feelings, impeccably accurate analysis :rolleyes:, and rare but occasional crow eating, the few times I'm...gulp...well...wrong, when it comes to all things UConn Hoops.

I'm now looking forward to the 2015/16 team raise up banner #5 on the walls of HGP to turn the page on what was a challenging year for our team and household, and to a new one filled with great celebration. Okay, 2015 wasn't all that bad. The Pats, who are my and my Dad's team, took the air out of other NFL teams by becoming XLIX Super Bowl champs. Don't anyone dare add a negative Pats' deflategate reply to this thread! This one is all about my dad. Yeah, that's a low blow for those Patriot Haters, but deal!! :D
my deepest sympathy. Hold onto the memories of the good times.
 
Thanks for sharing your loss, Stu. I can relate in a very personal way as my 93-year-old mother has bronchial pneumonia and was admitted to the hospital yesterday with significant breathing difficulty. She has stabilized, but has not shown the response to treatment that would be desired so far. She is 93, but clear as can be and still a strong and caring lady, probably the most selfless person I have known. At 93, she was going to fly out to CT to come with us to our daughter's college graduation this weekend before getting sick. There is reason to believe that she will get better, but who knows at her age. I was in tears yesterday after the graduation when I heard she was hospitalized and got in touch with how much I am not ready to say goodbye (not that that makes any difference).

Take care of yourself! Your Dad sounds like a great person.
 
Sorry for your loss DM. It is almost 30 years since I lost my WWII vet Dad and I know it is never easy. Expect a pretty tough year ahead, let yourself be happy when it comes and sad when that comes. All the best.
another DM
 
Stu,

my sincere condolences on the passing of your Dad. I am sure you will smile many times daily thinking of all the pleasant memories your Dad gave you.

God bless you and your family.

Steve85
Thanks, Steve.
 
I just got back from having dinner with a close friend of mine, Alex, who's also a big UConn fan. Alex and I have shared season tickets for years with DPSr and Mrs. DPSr. It was a nice escape.

Again, I wish I could reply to each kind and encouraging post. It was nice reading how some of you actually enjoy reading my posts. How about that!?!? :)

But it's all the nice things said about my dad that really stood out. I know I've taken for granted that he served in World War II. I've thanked many for serving our country, but I don't recall if I ever thanked my dad for that.

There are so few WWII vets that are still alive. My brother took my dad to the World War II museum down in New Orleans a year or two ago, which I've heard is spectacular. He had plans to take him down there again this August, but unfortunately that trip won't be taking place. I heard they keep on expanding the museum. I hope to get down there some day, and hope others get to do so as well.

Thank you all for taking the time to post your condolences. It's been the highlight of my day reading them. Sure beat the hell out of pumping all the water and crap off the top of my pool, that's for sure. :)
 
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Thanks for sharing your loss, Stu. I can relate in a very personal way as my 93-year-old mother has bronchial pneumonia and was admitted to the hospital yesterday with significant breathing difficulty. She has stabilized, but has not shown the response to treatment that would be desired so far. She is 93, but clear as can be and still a strong and caring lady, probably the most selfless person I have known. At 93, she was going to fly out to CT to come with us to our daughter's college graduation this weekend before getting sick. There is reason to believe that she will get better, but who knows at her age. I was in tears yesterday after the graduation when I heard she was hospitalized and got in touch with how much I am not ready to say goodbye (not that that makes any difference).

Take care of yourself! Your Dad sounds like a great person.
Sorry to hear that your mother has fallen ill, DB2U. I hope she recovers, and that you enjoy many more years with her. She sounds like a special woman. The world isn't ready to lose her just yet.
 
The WW2 generation was special - I am so sorry to hear about your Dad's death. He lived a full life but I am sure you will find emptiness at certain times going forward due to his loss - he sounds like a great guy.
The Chief 00
 
condolences DM
 
I hate your long posts....always have. This was your best one. Try to celebrate his great memories the best you can. Sending good thoughts to you and your family.
 
Sincere condolences and thank you to your father for his service and sacrifice as a member of The Greatest Generation
 
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