I was thinking the same thing, however shouldn't some of this also fall on the shoulders of AAU programs and high schools these kids come from? These programs are always out there promoting who they helped get to top tier programs but do they talk about what happens afterwards when it doesn't go well?
For example:
Michigan Crossover - Rickea Jackson, Gabby Elliott, Destiny Pitts, Jasmine Powell, and Alyza Winston all played with that program at some point.
Hamilton Heights/FBC - Jasmine Massengil, Elizabeth Balogun, Treasure Hunt, and Kamila Cardoso.
I agree that parents and students need to do a better job at research, but sometimes parents just don't know where to start. How much responsibility is being put on these programs who have been in this for years, if not decades? They usually have more insight on schools than parents could ever know that they may not be sharing because they only care about getting more kids to play for them to continue building their brand.