Yep on Andrea, like I said - I think it was the BEST choice for her character not to kill him at that point and that's my theme here that I'm kind of a TV game theorist in that I like to be able to see that characters made the best possible choice from their perspective. When strategy and emotion (killing a human) align all the more power. I think in order to play up that human angle they might have showed if she was acting or into their fornication - i.e. if she's checking her watch then pausing to kill him has more emotional weight b/c you've kind of seen her commit to the strategy.
True, but they have pretty much shied away from the sex stuff. Usually it's a couple kisses then fade to later. As most TV/movies, the violence is fine, but don't show any sex.
We knew she wasn't going to kill him, not dramatic enough at this point. Gotta be at end of season or maybe even into next season. Although they did kill off Shane before the last episode of Season 2??? Be interesting to see who does kill him? Andrea turns against him? Rick, leader vs leader, crazy vs crazy? Maggie or Glenn for revenge? Merle for redemption (like Vader and Palpatine?)? Maybe Carl to save his dad? So many possibilities.
A criticism I've heard since (and a frequent prob of this show) is why everyone at the prison relay stories of Governor's treachery to get Andrea to flip or be their assassin, Merle could have told of the army murders and especically Glenn's girlfriend had to tell Andrea about the Governor's near rape and humiliation of her by making her strip! The latter would have helped my scenario above as Andrea's skin would have been crawlin' to bed down with his Governing-skeeviness.
I think Merle assumes she knows. Or should have a clue. He was close to the Governor and knew what the Governor did. I think he assumes the same for her. Although the Governor has hidden quite a bit from her. And unlike Michonne, she really hasn't gone looking for faults. At one point in the prison conversations with Andrea, when she was talking about working something out, Merle kind of looked at her and said, you know better than that. (that ain't gonna happen)
As for Maggie, I don't think she wants to talk to Glenn, Beth or her dad about what happened at Woodbury, let alone with Andrea (open up to someone who might try to defend him, has been sleeping with him??? don't think she wants to go through that.) I think Maggie just wants to forget it ever happened. Agreed this should definitely change the way Andrea thinks about the Governor from a sex standpoint. Even if her plan was to screw and kill.
I think that might have been her plan, but either she's not quite got the stomach for killing an unarmed human (as opposed to self defense or a walker), or hasn't figured out how to make it all work out (her escape and such), I don't know? Or maybe she still thinks she can work everything out. bring peace without killing??? Which isn't going to happen.
In Andrea's defense it's hard to admit you've made a serious mistake in judgement. Especially with someone you are sleeping with. To realize you've fallen for and been intimate with a psycho. She thinks she's smart, and she has to come to the acceptance that she makes really bad character judgements. (Shane, Governor).