I gotta say I agree with the Chinese parents, if their attitudes toward sports are accurately reflected in this thread. I grew up in a sports household. Giants, Mets, Rangers. Funny thing is, I ended up falling in love with basketball. Mom was disappointed, as she really thought I was going pro in baseball. Not sure how much time my parents put into sports. Huge amount. Figure 4-6 hours on Sundays watching football. Many, many hours carting us kids around to sports. Many, many hours watching other sports (shoot the puck Barry!).
They probably spent more time watching sports in one week than they spent interacting with me regarding my schooling in one year.
Had my kids. Started to do the sports thing.
I did it for about 12 years. That's when my oldest was in "travel" soccer. Remember standing on the sidelines of some tourni. It was Columbus day 3 day weekend. It was Sunday. I remember praying for my kid's team to lose because then we wouldn't have to truck back out there on Monday. The non-playing younger kids were bivouacking along the sidelines, being unfortunate in their birth order, bored. There was a steady, light rain. It was, maybe 50 degrees. The ground was muddy.
Kid's team loses. My mood lightens, as I look at my younger kids and look forward to telling them that we don't have to do this again. Coach comes up to me. Hey Frank. We've worked it out with the other team that lost in the semis so that we can both come back tomorrow and have a runner-up game. Isn't that great? Oh yeah, and by the way, we'd love Frankina to be on the indoor team, which we're starting after the fall season.
In the car on the ride home I announced to the family that we were done with travel soccer, travel anything. Sports in general. Each kid thereafter got to do 1 rec-league sport per year. That's it. Within a couple years, that was all gone too.
One of the best decisions I ever made as a parent.
I guess I'm part Chinese. I think sports are a huge waste of time, and I think the focus of the average American on sports is borderline pathological.
Most Americans can name more current NFL quarterbacks than past presidents.
So I guess I've gone 180. Born and raised in a household that was huge on sports and got meh grades. Now I run a household that watches the Super Bowl and about 25 UConn games a year and not any other sports and does Chinese well in school.
Too bad there wasn't a "hate" button. I'd love to see the tally on this post.