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Dog or cat?

Considering your residence, I'd go with cat. We live in a 1200 square foot two story house, so that's a little tight for a dog unless we had a smaller breed.

My cat Vinny has been a great addition to our family and since my wife and I both work the same hours, there are never concerns over feeding, etc. By the time they are a bit older, they can handle weekends away and plus I find it easier to find family/friends to care for a cat when you need to be away for an extended period of time.

We've really lucked out with Vinny. My wife found him for adoption while she was on a sisters' trip to Jonathan Edwards winery. He's almost dog like: wags his tail, chases and fetches toys, very loving. Aside from the scratching of furniture, he has no other negative traits of some cats. For example, when he wants to be fed in the morning, he simply sits on our bed and waits til we wake up to get our attention and it's usually a cute action of him either laying next to us or sitting on top of us. He's a great guy. Oh, and he also has husky coloring!
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Cat.
1. I know litter boxes can stink, but cats keep themselves very clean. I've yet to meet a dog that didn't smell like...a dog.
2. Even if it's with love, dogs are always in your face. But if that's what you're after...
3. Feed the kitty, clean the box. Interact with kitty as much as you'd like. They have wonderful personalities if you develop a relationship.
4. Most cats are just fine with being left alone. Not so with most dogs.
5. Cats don't bark, and don't stare at anyone who is eating.
So- if you want a furry, barky 4-legged child that loves you (and food) obsessively, get a dog. If you want a furry, purry independent friend who gives you space, get a cat. Or, if you are just bored, aquariums are a nice hobby.
 
Vancat said:
Cat.
1. I know litter boxes can stink, but cats keep themselves very clean. I've yet to meet a dog that didn't smell like...a dog.
2. Even if it's with love, dogs are always in your face. But if that's what you're after...
3. Feed the kitty, clean the box. Interact with kitty as much as you'd like. They have wonderful personalities if you develop a relationship.
4. Most cats are just fine with being left alone. Not so with most dogs.
5. Cats don't bark, and don't stare at anyone who is eating.
So- if you want a furry, barky 4-legged child that loves you (and food) obsessively, get a dog. If you want a furry, purry independent friend who gives you space, get a cat. Or, if you are just bored, aquariums are a nice hobby.
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Note to cat owners who think their house doesn't smell like a litter box: It smells like a litter box.
 
If you want a companion who will go outside with you, take on hikes, etc get a dog. If you’re not going to put in the work to go to a legit training class (for the love of god not PetSmart) I’m not sure where you’re located but Tails U Win in Manchester is great.

Cats are entirely hit or miss. Some cats you won’t know you have a cat until the food bowl is empty or the litter is full. I got lucky and got the sweetest most friendly cat. People who aren’t cat people come over and are like “wow I actually like your cat.” You can’t count on that though.
 
Deepster said:
Note to cat owners who think their house doesn't smell like a litter box: It smells like a litter box.
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We didn’t think ours stunk then we moved it to the basement and noticed how much better the house smelled.
 
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Have 5 dogs and 1 cat. Never was a cat person, but this guy is awesome. Problem is I would say the chances of getting a good cat are like 1/10. The other 9 cats will be balloon knots or antisocial. Now I know the pro-rescue people will have a fit, but getting them from a shelter is a total crapshoot. Your chances of getting a good cat would increase getting a breed (from a breeder) known to typically be friendly and social. Males are also usually more friendly than females, but make sure to get it fixed.
 
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I live in a downtown city apartment and though I loved my Millie for 15 years (see avatar) when she passed I was totally lost but I knew I couldn't replace her. A cat in an apartment is the way to go. Also, get two! It's no more work than one, and they'll enjoy each other.

Millie was awesome but I don't miss walking her several times a day in the middle of February when it's 20 degrees and sleeting. Cat's are very clean, just keep the litter box fresh.

Choose wisely! Many shelters have extensive descriptions of personalities and meet-and-greet hours. If you're local Mary's Kitty Korner in Granby does a great job and they have over 50 cats that need homes.

My two guys, Morty and Mel are wonderful cats...loving, friendly, funny. Mel is so talkative you can have a conversation with him. The boys:
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Deepster said:
Note to cat owners who think their house doesn't smell like a litter box: It smells like a litter box.
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Nope. Just nope.

I've had both dogs and cats. The amount of cleaning necessary to keep your house from smelling like dog is about 58495723489054235894 times what is necessary to spend 45 seconds scooping a litter box once a day, and replacing the litter weekly. When my parents had a dog (husky) when I was young, it drove my incredibly clean mother nearly insane as she was vacuuming every room in the house daily just to keep the fur under control.

As an adult, when I walk into a dog owner's house, I immediately know it's a dog owner. I don't notice it with cat owners unless they're slobs.
 
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I've had both, dogs require more care (i.e. walking, exercise). I have a cat now and she fits my lifestyle.

A big part of pet ownership which I failed to think about is vacationing and leaving town. There
superjohn said:
To play off the other pet thread. I'm thinking of getting either a dog or cat. I like dogs and cats equally and am a bit conflicted on what to get. Since I live in an apartment in the city if it was a dog I would lean towards non active breeds, bulldog and pug come to mind....I've always loved Beagles and Jack Russell's but they need to run and explore, living in a city apartment wouldn't be fair to them. A cat is certainly a lot easier. Any recommendations on good apartment dog breeds, non barkers and what cat breeds tend to have the best/most fun personalities?
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Make sure you factor in your lifestyle, particularly traveling/vacationing. If you have a pet sitter, or someone you can trust to watch your pet in your house while away, then you are free to make any choice and any size.

Our cat was thrust on us by our daughter when she moved, and we are now restricted to travel plans of one week max. We won't let someone in our house to care for her. But she doesn't require a whole lot of care other than food, water, litter box and some toys scattered around when we are away.

Also pet hair has become an issue, with hair on clothes, furniture and practically everywhere. Its minor but I would factor that in your decision also, meaning hairy pet or not.
 
Excalibur said:
Nope. Just nope.

I've had both dogs and cats. The amount of cleaning necessary to keep your house from smelling like dog is about 58495723489054235894 times what is necessary to spend 45 seconds scooping a litter box once a day, and replacing the litter weekly. When my parents had a dog (husky) when I was young, it drove my incredibly clean mother nearly insane as she was vacuuming every room in the house daily just to keep the fur under control.

As an adult, when I walk into a dog owner's house, I immediately know it's a dog owner. I don't notice it with cat owners unless they're slobs.
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If you have a dog, your house smells like a dog and has visual evidence of dog everywhere. You cannot hide it. Plus, there's the dog which will be front and center 24/7.

If you have a cat, there is a 99.987% chance that your house smells like you have a cat. And there is cat hair everywhere.

No one thinks their house smells, everyone thinks their house is clean, but if you really, really want to get rid of pet smells and have a truly clean house, don't put an animal in it. That is the trade off.
 
So ignoring the pet hating sociopaths for a minute, here's my breakdown --

Dog pros --

more likely to be a "social" companion
more easily trained
if trained, less likely to destroy furniture
great wingman if you're single

Dog cons --

You have to get it exercise. If you're in an apartment, that means walking it. And it means walking it regardless of the weather. That sounds good until it's -5 and windy.
You can't leave it home all day.
Pet dander in the house is worse.
Simply more expensive to own
If you have hardwood floors, prepare to deal with them being scratched.

Cat pros --

Lower maintenance
Generally calmer once they reach adulthood
You can (and should) get more than one -- two dogs is a lot for most people
Easier to clean up after (that includes vomit, by the way. Medium-sized dog puke is pretty much like a toddler vomiting in their bed. Cat puke is much more manageable, though they do throw up more often)

Cat cons --

Less "social" in the sense that they're not waiting at your door to greet you and jump in your arms when you come home. Greater chance (probably 30%) that he/she will just want to be left alone. But most cats are still very affectionate.
They will claw your furniture to he!!. There's nothing you can do about it.
More of your visitors will be allergic (at least that's my experience).
 
Excalibur said:
So ignoring the pet hating sociopaths for a minute, here's my breakdown --

Easier to clean up after (that includes vomit, by the way. Medium-sized dog puke is pretty much like a toddler vomiting in their bed. Cat puke is much more manageable, though they do throw up more often)
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The pet-hating sociopaths rest their case.

We'll now argue the merits of owning a toddler.

1) Pro - they can make a perfectly acceptable lobster roll.
 
storrsroars said:
Well, if we're gonna be sharing photos, here's 100 lbs of an animal who looks like a typical dumb, friendly Golden Retriever, but whose Great Pyrenees side will scare the living crap out anyone who approaches its vague and portable definition of "territory", and who in a typical day, will shed enough fur to choke a dozen cats, obeys commands only when he's damned well ready to, terrifies the neighbors, barks for extended periods at imagined threats a mile away, and will guarantee you can't join the gig economy as an Uber driver due to all the hair in the backseat.

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Cisco is 5 and has been with us more than 2 years now, because when we were checking him out at his foster home, he hopped into our car and would not leave. And yes, the bastard did eat my burger last weekend when I went to get more cole slaw.
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But he's undeniably good looking.
 
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Excalibur said:
So ignoring the pet hating sociopaths for a minute, here's my breakdown --

Dog pros --

more likely to be a "social" companion
more easily trained
if trained, less likely to destroy furniture
great wingman if you're single

Dog cons --

You have to get it exercise. If you're in an apartment, that means walking it. And it means walking it regardless of the weather. That sounds good until it's -5 and windy.
You can't leave it home all day.
Pet dander in the house is worse.
Simply more expensive to own
If you have hardwood floors, prepare to deal with them being scratched.

Cat pros --

Lower maintenance
Generally calmer once they reach adulthood
You can (and should) get more than one -- two dogs is a lot for most people
Easier to clean up after (that includes vomit, by the way. Medium-sized dog puke is pretty much like a toddler vomiting in their bed. Cat puke is much more manageable, though they do throw up more often)

Cat cons --

Less "social" in the sense that they're not waiting at your door to greet you and jump in your arms when you come home. Greater chance (probably 30%) that he/she will just want to be left alone. But most cats are still very affectionate.
They will claw your furniture to he!!. There's nothing you can do about it.
More of your visitors will be allergic (at least that's my experience).
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Most is correct. Cat puke is worst because it's constant. They are difficult to manage what food of the month they like and what the will keep from leaving everywhere in the house. Dogs never puke unless they get sick which is rare.

Dogs are a great wingman even if you're not single too. I know what you mean as far as single man stuff but all in all the dog is good for more stuff. Also a dog will go on hikes and long walks so in turn as you get older with them you force yourself to make them happy and keep exercising for yourself as well. Come home from work crappy day he makes you happy no matter and then instead of hitting the couch you go for a 3-5 mile jaunt to make you both feel better.

Love my cats and I get the smell stuff but way overrated. No doubt cats if you take care of litter better but not by enough to give them the edge. Of course I'm a bit bias and defensive right now I guess LOL b ut a dog if you can and you have the area to do what they need to be happy.
 
My cat frequently met me at the top of the stairs when I came home from work, then sit in my lap while I took off my shoes. I have to admit I got a kick out of it every time.
 
get a grizzly bear. not one of those namby-pamby black bears, and its too warm for the polar kind. easy to take care of since they sleep half the time. hunt more deer and get a bigger freezer. home security? heck, you've just solved neighborhood security, and im guessin that your neighbors will willingly kick you some cash for, oh, a variety of reasons. as an extra benny, you don't have to comb them, and they laugh at thunder. proally gonna need a bigger box of those cannachews for pets tho.
 
Excalibur said:
Nope. Just nope.

I've had both dogs and cats. The amount of cleaning necessary to keep your house from smelling like dog is about 58495723489054235894 times what is necessary to spend 45 seconds scooping a litter box once a day, and replacing the litter weekly. When my parents had a dog (husky) when I was young, it drove my incredibly clean mother nearly insane as she was vacuuming every room in the house daily just to keep the fur under control.

As an adult, when I walk into a dog owner's house, I immediately know it's a dog owner. I don't notice it with cat owners unless they're slobs.
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a) I think you overestimate the amount of people who routinely clean litter boxes. Or who push that once a day scoop to maybe every other day. And maybe push that weekly replacing to every 9-10 days.

b) That doesn't count for people who's cats whiz outside the box. There ain't nothing getting rid of that. Ever. And its 10 times worse on a hot, humid day.
 
Deepster said:
That doesn't count for people who's cats whiz outside the box. There ain't nothing getting rid of that. Ever. And its 10 times worse on a hot, humid day.
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When we were looking for houses the realtor brought us to what I refer to as the cat lady house. It was empty and apparently clean to the eye but the smell of cat urine was like being hit in the face with a shovel as soon as you walked through the door.
 
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superjohn said:
To play off the other pet thread. I'm thinking of getting either a dog or cat. I like dogs and cats equally and am a bit conflicted on what to get. Since I live in an apartment in the city if it was a dog I would lean towards non active breeds, bulldog and pug come to mind....I've always loved Beagles and Jack Russell's but they need to run and explore, living in a city apartment wouldn't be fair to them. A cat is certainly a lot easier. Any recommendations on good apartment dog breeds, non barkers and what cat breeds tend to have the best/most fun personalities?
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You're single and live in NYC and you want to burden yourself with a pet? Live life. Soon you'll get married, then have kids, then die. Enjoy life now while you can.

If you must have a pet, get a fish tank.
 
superjohn said:
Geezus man, you deserve a break.
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I will tell you. I am an ordinary guy given an extraordinary opportunity to live up to the vow I made well over 30 years ago. Honestly some days I regret it. Other days I am able to make her smile, and that makes the moment worth it. It is obviously not easy, and frankly I am the only one with any memories...but somehow I manage to keep moving forward.
 
Madmannsucks said:
I will tell you. I am an ordinary guy given an extraordinary opportunity to live up to the vow I made well over 30 years ago. Honestly some days I regret it. Other days I am able to make her smile, and that makes the moment worth it. It is obviously not easy, and frankly I am the only one with any memories...but somehow I manage to keep moving forward.
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You are a giant. Ain’t nothing ordinary about you.
 
crewbear742 said:
A dog is trustworthy, loyal, helpful, friendly, courteous, kind, obedient, cheerful, thrifty, brave, clean and reverent. A cat will spend it's days plotting to kill you. My daughters say "The cat is not trying to kill you, dad." But I know better. I've looked in its eyes...

Unfortunately, the cat has powerful allies.
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Get a pet rock and name it Fido.

A dog or cat are basically equal. They both taste like chicken.
 
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