We were both right on the Big East deal, as far as I can tell:
"The Irish, a member of the Big East in all sports except football, will play three Big East teams each football season on a home-and-home basis. All eight conference teams will face the Irish.
The news, hinted at for months, came after Big East meetings in Ponte Vedra, Fla., where Notre Dame athletic director Kevin White first confirmed the games.
"We told (Big East Commissioner) Mike Tranghese not to expect us to become members if we did this," said Notre Dame associate athletic director John Heisler. "But the Big East has been a very beneficial relationship for us, and Mike T. encouraged us to do what we could, specifically if we would consider the prospect of making more of a commitment."
Pitt had already signed Notre Dame to an eight-game deal from 2006-2015, in addition to this year's season opener at Heinz Field.
The Panthers' games will count towards Notre Dame's three games each year.
Notre Dame did not ask for a two-for-one deal, Heisler said.
Notre Dame will play one of the three Big East teams on a yearly basis -- expected to be Rutgers or Connecticut -- at the Meadowlands in New Jersey, reportedly for recruiting and alumni purposes."
http://bluegraysky.blogspot.com/2005/05/weekend-scraps.html
So, ND was going to play 3 Big East games a year. One was always going to be Pitt. One was always going to be at the Meadowlands, against either Rutgers or UConn . There was going to be one other BE school per year.
When the Rutgers/UConn games at the Meadowlands blew up, that was the end of the deal. It was never intended to be three true home/home games per year. ND already played Pitt every year and that would always count as one of the three games.
Really, ND only promised to play two more BE opponents and then only if one of those "away" games were always held at the Meadowlands instead of at Rutgers or UConn's home stadium.
One of the other two games was always going to be at ND and at the Meadowlands. When the Meadowlands deals blew up, that was the end of that.
"A neutral-site game isn't the only thing the university is working on.
It is also considering having an agreement with the Big East Conference, in which most of its other athletic teams compete, to play at least three football games a year against Big East opponents.
The university would hope to play at least one of those three games at Giants Stadium in East Rutherford, N.J., a site that has hosted the Irish 11 times."
http://articles.chicagotribune.com/...ite-athletic-director-john-heisler-notre-dame