Video reminds me of my “worst and best“ (meaning personally I am not sure which) moment as an AAU coach. I was coaching against an ex-D1 player who ran a very strong program in Jersey in the 2000’s, freshman/sophomore age group.
He thought it funny to run up scores and goof on overmatched teams and one of the things he and his players thought “cool” was to have his players wind up like a baseball throw and threaten throwing the ball in the face of their defender, laughing when the kid invariably cringed or worse.
We were unknown but pretty hard nosed and I told him before the game started that any of that nonsense would escalate quickly, that I had absolutely no problem if they were good enough to run the score up but the other stuff was off limits; I was raised playing ball in parks and playgrounds and learned early you stood your ground hard or went home.
Anyway, they were certainly the better team but we hung tough much of the game and with about 5 minutes to go they went up about 10 - 12 and maintained it to about the minute mark. Then their point guard pulled the baseball throw pantomime and their bench, including coaches, started clapping and laughing.
I had talked to my son prior and he immediately came off the wing and went through the opposing guard with his shoulder, knocking him about 15 feet into the lower rungs of the bleachers.
All “heck” broke loose and the only thing that probably prevented it from escalating further was that most of the parents from other teams came on the floor and kept the teams and coaches apart.
Fifteen or so years later I still have very mixed feelings about it; a side of me was raised “old school” and that’s what we were taught and a side of me certainly recognizes that the kid could have been seriously hurt; his was a “non-violent” act aimed to humiliate, I directed my son to retaliate and that could have potentially caused injury. By today’s values and mores I was certainly wrong but by my own, when I am reminded of it, I am still torn.