Everyone has a right to their opinion and complaints. For me, if I have to complain about players, coaches, announcers, arena's etc. easy; I complain about the refs, like 99% of the fan bases. The refs have the hardest job and are the more likely to err, so any complaints are probably warranted.
The big take away from the past 2 games against SJ and SH, is that the refs forced us to play the other teams game, and impressively, we won both! Forcing us to play physical, and the other teams game, is my biggest complaint about the refs. In both games the results were more of a reflection of the opponent than UConn. SJ stunk it up and it showed. SH impressed and it showed. UConn was impressive and won, because the officiating was more or less consistent. Poor in style, but consistent. SH can argue inconsistent because of the rare FTA in UConn's favor.
For comparison, Duke forced Michigan to play it's game, and Michigan could not win. UConn's ability to win different style of games is encouraging.