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Can't call them cowards or disloyal or anything, in my opinion. They get four shots at playing in the big dance, and sacrificing one of them is a lot to ask. Especially since very few of us are in our first jobs or with the first person we dated, so there have been times we've had to make decisions to move on that we thought were better for us. Same deal here - just waaaay more people on the outside are invested in the decision.