I like you J but you need to chill a bit. Whining (or complaining with valid reason, as those who do it may view it) happens everywhere and it is in the eye of the beholder wheterh it is warranted or not.
For example, I know of a school not far from my alma mater where he entirety of its fan base whined at an unimaginably massive level when their coach decided to move on to greener pastures and to boot, when said coach happened to return, caused the local police to send reinforcements out of fear that things would get out of hand.
One thing I find quite ironic about this (with details that I only learned this evening as I do not really follow that school) is that not only did they poach a head coach from another school (I guess it's alright when they do it), that coach took two very significant players with him. I could be wrong but I don't believe the coach that I was referring to in the earlier paragraph did that. I may be alone here but I think poaching a head coach and then that head coach taking a couple of the better players is far more egregious than a coach merely leaving.