. . . This following statement is conjecture on your part and intended for an affect.
"No efforts were made by anyone connected with PSU to identify the boy . . ."
I qualified my position and explained what I meant by the high road. McQuaery and Paterno did not lie to the grand jury. . . . Curley and Schultz's behavior is typical for our society regarding sexual abuse . . . in my mind [McQueary] deserves the credit for doing something that most of us don't do, contrary to your inaccurate assumption.
I think it's conjecture, but rather fair conjecture, that PSU didn't try to identify the boy McQueary saw. Multiple reports indicate the boy remains unidentified to this day. If PSU made unsuccessful efforts to identify him, given the totality of the institution's handling of this problem it would be very surprising.
As to whether Cat made the comment "for effect," well, the big picture here is institutional failure to seek the truth, to protect the innocent and to get the matter in the hands of the authorities outside the institution. Failure to try to identify the child in question is one dab of paint making up that picture. If you're upset by that dab, you're going to be very unhappy as this thing unfolds and (I will conjecture) gets even worse.
"McQuaery and Paterno did not lie to the grand jury." That's conjecture on YOUR part. My guess is McQueary, the future star witness, didn't, but Paterno fudged a bit. After testifying, he (no longer under oath) reportedly tried to qualify the impression left by his testimony by saying he'd stopped McQueary before his report got too graphic (whatever that means, and for whatever reason he did it). We'll see how much their testimony agrees or differs in the criminal and/or civil proceedings to come.
About your assertion that not coming forward (or even lying) about sexual abuse is typical of our society, I think you're speaking primarily of abuse within a family. But the analogy of that microcosm to the dynamics of institutional self-protection in the face of scandal is only partially useful.
One of the huge ongoing stories here, and the reason it will have legs practically forever, is that one of the protagonists is big-time college athletics, with all its power, ethical shortcomings and underlying dominance of money. The story pits that power, and the instinctive desire to protect and wield it, against one of the most basic of other human instincts -- to protect our children. The stage for that drama is set, and it'll be a very long-running play.
You're disappointed that people aren't giving Paterno and McQueary credit for their grand jury testimony. I think Cat's point is that you don't deserve a great deal of credit for answering a subpoena to appear before a grand jury, as you could be jailed for contempt if you didn't. And you may or may not deserve credit for the way you testify, bearing in mind that you can also be jailed for failing to testify truthfully -- a fate to which the prosecutor would like to introduce Curley and Schultz (so far).
So I think it's premature to give anyone on the PSU side of this a lot of credit, other than the Board. And things could get worse for Paterno. He could end up as something resembling, or being, an unindicted co-conspiritor, or even an indicted one. So I'm not inclined to give him credit in any part of this as yet.
But if it's a matter of degree, I lean toward giving McQ more credit than the other players. I know many are savaging him for not going all Rambo on Sandusky, and then not getting out in front of his superiors as time went by thereafter, but I just feel a little more sympathy for his situation -- starting with shock and dismay and proceeding to trying to do the logical reporting and then, less creditably but somewhat understandably, minding his own business as those above him were supposedly dealing with the matter, albeit for a long, long time.