I couldn't wait to move out of Ct and finally did about 4 years ago down to the Greenville Sc area. I absolutely love it and will never go back to Ct. This area is great weather wise, you still get a little bit of 4 seasons but none of them are all that brutal (not as hot/humid as like Charlston or FL, not as cold or snowy as Ct). I'm close enough to the mountains to enjoy hikes & camping and beautiful scenery.
I never really hear about people out of work and not being able to find/have a job or not be able to pay their bills. Cost of living is so much cheaper...I have a house in Ct, small 1000 sq foot 1/4 acre lot for $4800 in taxes, (actually still have it, anyone looking to buy a house in Naugatuck

- Down here I have 4 acres 3500 sq foot house (would have cost double to buy in CT) and pay $1800 in taxes. Car/house insurance is less, gas prices are cheapest in the nation etc...
People are generally much nicer (yes some are fake, but most are genuine and you don't have to deal with as much rudeness)
Greenville is a very nice good size city with things to do, Asheville NC is close buy and fun to visit and if your looking for a bigger city Charlotte and Atlanta are both within 2 hour drive.
I honestly cant say much about education, don't have kids and don't want any so I don't pay much attention to that.
And of course very importantly, you can get Att uverse and sports package with SNY and see all the men and womans games