Cape Cod sounds good to me. Problem is housing. Being in one of those condo developments for old people just sounds like death to me. Probably smart to invest in a rental home that you make your home upon retirement. The bonus of being old there is that you never have to mow grass.
I live in a Community that is split down the middle one side is all age .The all age side is incredibly kid friendly , They have two regulation soccer fields, a softball stadium, huge playground,,a pool area ,that includes a water park and a k-8 school.
They also have a huge community center with basketball courts. And a gym. We and our guests have access to their facilities ,usually with a grandkids,for a small fee.
We share access to an 18 hole golf course ,But they don't have access to our side unless their a residents guest.
The age restricted side has its own community center .
The biggest club is the hiking club ,I think they have 200 members at various levels., but there are tons of activities.
There are people here in great shape , we also have a personal trainer on site.
I was inspired by watching this lady on the elliptical as I was lifting weights
She went full speed for over an hour. She was at least my age
My cardio was awful at the time I 've since lost 60lbs
and incorporate 45-60 minutes on the elliptical as part of my walking routine.
My goal it to start running again ,maybe do a marathon.
The ages in this type tend of community. Tend to be on the younger side.
We accept 10 percent as young as 45
We also have an ASU extension within our community's
All houses on our side single family one story from 1200 to 2800 sq feet.
The lots range from 7000 to 10.000 sq feet.
I chose not to have grass at all . But it's an option especially if you have a pet.
I don't have a pet but many do.
My favorite definition of freedom "is kids gone pets dead."