I like AZ ,I think it was a great choice for me.
1 A warmer climate was probably the most important factor.
65 years of winter wears on you.
2. My son was already here ,plus my niece, my sister also retired here so we have substantial family. We also have my wife's best friend and another friend within 75 miles. Don't underestimate family support.
We also have old friends who live in San Diego who stop by.
3. Housing costs ,taxes, style,
Although housing here in certain areas is comparable in price to many places in CT
Actually housing in CT is still depressed
Taxes in almost every area are about a qtr of my CT taxes
Try to find senior friendly housing in CT or the NE , as you age stairs may or may not be a factor
4 I live in a active adult community , with an 18 hole golf course, and a great community center with a great gym,two pools, two hot tubes ,great locker room which includes a sauna.. Also a walking track indoors
Since I walk about 400,000 steps a month that works out well for summer
5 June July August and into Sept are hot but your certainly not stuck in the house , I played golf every day , with early tee times in the summer. You do outside activities in the morning
We don't go on daily savings so we have more sunlight at the coolest part of the day. Even on the hottest days it doen't get to 100 until 10-11 am . By then most golfers are sitting in the lounge having a beer.
5 We have 3 types of retired people here, snowbirds who's start to arrive in Oct and leave around Easter, RV 'ers who technically live here full time ,but in May they travel the country or even park their RV in higher elevations within a few hours of Phoenix. It's less worry free leaving a house here in the summer than leaving a house in a colder climate.in the winter. The North and east of Phoenix Temps are 30 degrees coolerbecause of elevation.
I hate to drive a car never mind a bus so RVing has zero appeal.
My plan is I spend 3-4 weeks in Ct ( leave one kid behind) in June , then another 2 weeks in Sept . Also snuck another vacationi in there in July
I'm in CT now and although the temps were in the 70's . The humidity is killing me .
In AZ I would be wearing long pants and long sleeves with 70's temps