Sorry, but most of the top players are the "queen bees" in high school. In the case of certain players from states where top-tier basketball talent is not abundant, this is even moreso. Kalana Green comes to mind. She was the do-everything player for her high school in South Carolina, yet came to UConn, was never the #1 option, and managed to blossom in her role (and went on to have a WNBA career).
As an aside, and this is my outsider opinion, I think Geno seems to be a little "gun shy" regarding players who are not 100 percent committed to being at UConn. After having Delle Donne leave and McCormack not show up, I think Geno wants kids who have no doubts about their decisions. If Geno withdrew the scholarship offer, it would make sense. There is no need to have a player on the team who does not want to be there. It is best for the individual player, her teammates, the player's family, the coach, and the program.
While some on other boards may paint this situation as a harsh one or use it to impune Geno's character (or use it as further evidence to disparage Geno's character), what seems harsh in the short term is no doubt the best thing for the player herself.