Back in the day, when I was living and working in Hartford, I got a better job offer at a substantially higher salary at a company in Philadelphia. But I already had a great bunch of Saturday morning golf buddies and a fantastic Thursday night poker game that I always looked forward to. I actually considered staying, largely because of those factors (though I raised other ones publicly since my real reason seemed so odd). Eventually, rationality prevailed and I made the move to Phila. Shortly thereafter two of the poker guys moved, one of my golf buddies fell seriously ill, and my best buddy took a job in San Diego. Had I stayed because of those guys I would have given up a great opportunity and sorely regretted it after waking up and realizing that the funhouse doesn't last forever.
That's the impression I had about Narduzzi's decision. He likes his coaching buddies and his present situation so much that he hemmed and hawed some, rationalized it, caused Warde to wince and ended up staying put. Eventually, when his coaching buddies move on, when the team starts to slide, when his linebackers don't make the big stop on 4th down, and when he doesn't land whatever "better" job he thought was surely in his sights, he'll sit there in the dark and say "Wow, I could have been UConn's Head Coach, lived closer to my roots, made $1M more, and developed some CEO coaching cred. WTF was I thinking. Honey, pass me the vodka".