why do people think drugs sales and gang involvement is what AH is involved in?
The guy he's alleged to have shot in the face in Florida, supposedly a friend of his, is a drug dealer and there have been some rumors of Hernandez being a drug user. Hernandez also failed drug tests at Florida, which were hushed up (Nice job there. How about intervention & help for a troubled young man, Florida? Hello?) There have also been reports that Hernandez has been in a gang in Bristol.
This is not true scientifically nor socially, despite what the Army tells you. Show me the science behind this. For the majority of people, yes, they might not be 'wired' to kill. But for others, they are born killers. Humans have been killing each other ad nauseum for centuries, and they won't stop any time soon. Some people enjoy taking lives. The determining quality is the ability to feel empathy for another human.
Many, many humans over the years have been born sociopaths or psychopaths, where they do not have the capability for empathy. For these individuals (who reportedly make up anywhere from 1-10% of the population), killing another human is nothing; it does not register emotionally, or it even registers as pleasure. These individuals also tend to be some of our most charismatic citizens.
Boy that really sucks. I hope his buddies beat the living crap out of the big mouth. However, it might have been better if they didn't. I'm sure they were just defending their friend who knew enough not to get involved.And DJ is now starting to feel the effects of his brother's noteriety.
http://www.courant.com/community/we...hernandez-fight-0702-20130701,0,4094930.story
Boy that really sucks. I hope his buddies beat the living crap out of the big mouth. However, it might have been better if they didn't. I'm sure they were just defending their friend who knew enough not to get involved.
The big mouths likely deserved it, but if I were DJ, I would have told my friends to stand down. He has too much to lose.
Coddling...
http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424127887323297504578579841842413024.html?mod=wsj_share_tweet
Something could, and should, have been done earlier
Sucker punched the guy. Signs of a punk early.
I will probably regret typing this message, but I am going to write it anyway.
I know that DJ Hernandez is loved around here and we all hold him in high esteem (myself included). But we all keep blaming Urban Meyer, the NFL, Florida, and everyone else for not stepping in and showing some discipline and tough love to AH to get him on the right track. Why does DJ get off here with absolutely no criticism?
He is the older brother (who AH looked up to by all accounts) and had to know that AH was not on the right path (he probably didn't know the full extent of what AH was doing, but I am sure he knew about the guns, mutliple run-ins with the law, drug involvement, many bad intentioned 'entourage', etc). At what point does DJ need to take some responsibility for not stepping in and trying to set his brother right. Obviously that is an extremely difficult thing to do...and for all we know, maybe he tried. But I see everyone here blaming Urban Meyer (and rightfully so) and everyone else that was involved with AH. But at the end of the day, the people who are most responsible for trying to take 'intervene' in a person who is ruining their life, is their own family. We all know that the Hernandez family is a good family and they are being portrayed as victims here...but at what point is it on them for not trying to set AH right?
Exactly. No consequences. Ridiculous. Something should have been done long before this happened. Punishment, counseling, etc.... Instead, Urban thought that NOTHING was the best way to go. And you can be pretty darn sure that he had something (likely everything) to do with the lack of consequences.
If everyone was treated this way, the world would be a much scarier place than it already is.
Just to add, AH and DJ, weren't kids that came from effed up backgrounds, they had supportive family/involved parents. One turned out all right, one didn't. Happens sometimes. Only person to blame is AH himself. You want to act like a millionaire gangsta, that is not gonna face consequences? There you go bra.
What? AH, made his own decision to go to UF, where it appears he further embraced the guns and thuggery. What the hell was dj to do when he is in storrs and little bro is in florida?.
Exactly. No consequences. Ridiculous. Something should have been done long before this happened. Punishment, counseling, etc.... Instead, Urban thought that NOTHING was the best way to go. And you can be pretty darn sure that he had something (likely everything) to do with the lack of consequences.
If everyone was treated this way, the world would be a much scarier place than it already is.
Everyone's been assuming that AH embraced this gang lifestyle in Florida, but lately I've been wondering if he left CT to get away from whatever thuggery he was involved in in Bristol. Apparently his thugs aren't from Florida, they're from his home town. I think it's perfectly plausible that leaving CT was the best thing for him, and maybe the worst thing that could have happened was for him to get drafted by the Pats (or maybe a NY team) because it kept him around Bristol
There's only so much a family can do, especially when the person is a grown adult. It really is amazing how much UF swept under the rug. If Aaron never lost his father, all this would never have happened and he would have played at UConn. But at the same time, he still had so many reasons to be grateful. Entitlement obviously ruins minds.
And these are just the incidents surrounding one player that were swept under the rug. Imagine the breadth of the cover ups for the remaining 100 players. Makes me proud of how (my original team, LSU) handles these things. Kicked Mathieu right off the team after a few failed attempts at forcing him to recover. You have to take a hard line on these kids. Urban Meyer, apparently, took no line. Pathetic excuse for a mentor of young men.
A few? Dude had more chances than Pac Man. what was is it 4 or 5 that we know about? No major D1 program ain't smelly.