I can't follow all the quesitnos here at once, makes my head spin.
Here's a new york times article from Jul 11, 1994.
http://www.nytimes.com/1994/07/11/sports/colleges-notre-dame-draws-big-east-s-approval.html
Keep in mind, that in 1990, the big east consisted of nine teams and did not play football, Penn state had been rejected 5 years earlier. In 1991, the league began football membership, coinciding with same time that the first incarnation of teh BCS was created around the biggest post season bowl games. I think it was called the bowl alliance or somethin, and the arrangements were made that conference champoins would automatically play in certain bowls, and the big east had several teams taht had historically been independant (BC/Syracuse/Pitt) and would stand to be left out in the cold for big post season bowl games at 1-A level. Miami is invited as all sports in 1991. Miami becomes the 10th big east team - IN ALL SPORTS. The only program that joins as all sports. Anybody remember those first b-ball games in south beach? miami sports were a joke to the big east regulars, except for football. I don't think miami ever took nice to that and they way they were regarded by big east leadership.
Rutgers and West Virginia, V Tech and Temple aslo get invited to join the football league, but they only get to join to play football, and the first big east football game I believe, was played in fall of 1992.
FFW to 1995, Rutgers and WEst Virginia have earned invites to be #11 and #12 in all sports.
Lets see now - there's a quote at the end of that NY Times piece. About the most serious point in splitting off basketball from football.
Adding Notre Dame is what kept the conference from fracturing in 1995.
It was enough to keep the basketball schools happy, and enough to keep the football schools happy at the time.
Had the commissioner at the time played hardball, or really cared about football at all, besides understanding that football was the key to a seat at the big money table, Notre Dame would have either been kept out, and the conference would have split, and gone forward in everyone's best interests as a split, or Notre Dame would have joined for football.
I believe that if we had a commissioner at the time other than Tranghese, it would have happened one way or the other.
I'm not particularly upset that Notre Dame was kept out at that point in time, because if Notre Dame doesn't join, the conference most likely splits, and UConn probably doesnt' ever move up to 1-A in football.
but by 2003? Totally different story. Notre Dame should have been in or out.