There's a difference between "hysterics" and "getting tough at the bargaining table", the latter of which Connecticut as a whole is not real good at when it comes to big-time sports. Goes back to being played like hicks by Peter Karmanos (bribing Lowell Weicker with Compuware board spot), Robert Kraft. Malloy strolls into office and throws money at ESPN at almost the very same time they're telling the ACC to get two more teams which they knew was going to blow up the Big East.
Now maybe they were thinking that UConn was going to be one of the two and were surprised by BC's -ness. But once it was clear UConn was out on an island they should have been working every single back-channel they had to help. There's zero evidence they have.
No one is saying "UConn academics will crumble". But all the advancement of the 1990s and 2000s will go in reverse if this doesn't end the right way, and we'll be back with URI, UMass, Vermont, New Hampshire and Maine sooner than you think.
ESPN isn't going anywhere. If they put their minds to fixing this it would get fixed. They just need to pushed a little bit.