I don't get it. Yes, the old Big E had a lot of flaws and I agree that it was inevitable that the conference would split between the football and non-football programs.
Even before the second Big East raid, I heard rumors from 2 BC alumni that BC was very nervous about UConn. Everyone knew the Big E was going to die. UConn had proven in a short time that it could be successful in basketball and football and with a larger alumni base and as a state U, UConn was a threat to BCs self-image of being New England's university (how could a private, Catholic university claim such is still a mystery; but, as BC can't be the US's catholic U because that is ND, they had to try something). So when round two came-up, BC blackballed UConn, formed an alliance with the southern ACC schools that were worried about the ACC being a basketball conference, and worked with Syracuse, who is worried about UConn's growing market share in NYC, to get ESPN to push for Pitt instead. DeFilippo stated as much. BC won that battle and UConn lost. Why deny it?
PS - The conspiracy side of me wonders why BC, even without DeFlippo, allowed UConn to join Hockey East. Its a logical fit as UConn's profile works well with U Maine, UNH, BC, BU & etc. and UConn women's hockey was already Hockey East. But, the invite took place when the rumors of possible interest in UConn from the B1G was making the rounds. Could have this been an attempt by BC to put some space between UConn and the B1G. Hockey East is much better than B1G hockey; but, UConn as a full B1G member would be a significant threat to BC.