I still don't understand your trepidation. Why is it exactly that "you feel bad" if they go to B12?
First off, you think the coaches or the kids that compete care who they play?
or Secondly, you think their recruiting is going to go down the tubes now that the program would get a massive influx of money? You don't think that extra money would help to recruit better / also make the program less likely to either go defunct or lower the recruiting priority/ keeping up the facilities etc.?
Third, in regard to travel, if UCONN gets the invite and agree to join, don't you think they have projected the estimated costs? SO, are you saying you have no confidence in their ability to even be remotely near their estimates? So, if they are that incompetent, then what would be the future outlook anyway?
Money rules everything if you want big time athletics. If you don't have the resources to get the money, eventually you will no longer compete nationally. So why "feel bad" if UCONN is able to get the money to allow all their sports to compete on a national level? You should feel happy - feel happy -- for the kids that chose to represent UCONN with a pretty-set-sure-knowledge that they will always be funded to compete on a National level, and be a part of something for years beyond their college days are over.