Exactly.I was really hoping this was a "accidentally kissed a coworker at a party" thread and the poor schmuck was at a moral cross road.
UCweCONN said:I can't see how anyone could come here and see the wide range of opinions and topics and not post. Even more unbelievable is people who have commented more than 10,000 times over the last 3 years. I came over from the start of this board, am on here constantly, and consider myself quite active and have 'only' 2,000 posts. I think posting is a full-time job for some posters here.
twitter is great for that. its a great hub if you follow the right people. the best 'social network' imo, lots of up to the second updates on literally everything.I'm obviously an active poster - but on the flip side I have a personal Twitter account that has maybe 100 tweets on it in three years (my work account has 20K, but that's another matter). I use Twitter all the time - but just to read, not interact. I imagine lots of folks use the yard that way.
The longer I have been here, the less often I feel like posting. The Yard works perfectly well as read-only.

I'm often tempted to jump in, but my ego's too fragile. I have a healthy fear of being bitten by a Fishy or, worse yet, releasing the 'McCracken'.
I was really hoping this was a "accidentally kissed a coworker at a party" thread and the poor schmuck was at a moral cross road.

Since this is the internet, I'm torn as to whether or not I should believe this story. I want it to be true though, so I choose to believe it.Something like that happened to me. At my last office party, about 25 years ago (I've worked on my own since) one of the prettier female workers kissed me, passionately. My husband, were a same-sex couple, was aghast, and the office gossip was too much for me.
mets1090 said:Since this is the internet, I'm torn as to whether or not I should believe this story. I want it to be true though, so I choose to believe it.
I was really hoping this was a "accidentally kissed a coworker at a party" thread and the poor schmuck was at a moral cross road.
The Board does confession too, so if you rather do it here then in the local church you are always welcome.I read your posts, but I almost never post anything. Is that cheating? When I read the boneyard several times a day, do I then have a responsibility to post more than a few times a year?
Okay, say after me: "My name is borninansonia. I am a Boneyard lurker. I take and take from the oh so generous, kind, and brilliant regular posters who just keep on giving."I confess. I read and don't post. I begin to understand who you are, without in return giving you the ability to understand who I am. I absorb your bball knowledge and insight (or, in some cases, lack of insight) without giving you my insight (and I do have some, gathered after 50 years of playing and watching basketball). I am guilty of lack of social exchanges. As punishment, I will continue to live deep in the Oregon woods, far from most UConn fans.
Okay, say after me: "My name is borninansonia. I am a Boneyard lurker. I take and take from the oh so generous, kind, and brilliant regular posters who just keep on giving."
Maybe you are taking Mark Twain's advice. I know a lot of posters, myself included, should remember this at times. "It is better to keep your mouth closed and let people think you are a fool than to open it and remove all doubt."I read your posts, but I almost never post anything. Is that cheating? When I read the boneyard several times a day, do I then have a responsibility to post more than a few times a year?
So how's the pizza in Oregon?Hello David 76. You're almost as old as I am.
Signed
The reclusive boneyard lurker, borninAnsonia.
No, I'm not proud of my Ansonia roots, but I'm certainly not ashamed of them either. They shaped who I am, I was raised a hick in a hick town, and now I'm a hick in a rural area of Oregon. But with more than 25,000 books sold, and dozens of technical articles, I'm not a stupid hick. Just a hick from Ansonia.
No you are not. I too was born in Ansonia in 1948 and I also used to live in Waldport OR. My posts have been few like you, compared to the # of years I've been here in the Boneyard.
The Board does confession too, so if you rather do it here then in the local church you are always welcome.