I'm 46, been to MSG several times for the BET. But I've also lived outside the northeast, where 1. NY is hated and 2. few people think MSG is a big deal.
As for tailgaiting....merely attempting to drive into the city is itself not conducive to tailgaiting. NY is the worst city in America to attempt to drive into. There's a reason the Giants and Jets play in New Jersey.
I cant disagree more with you about MSG. I have been to every single home and away game UConn played (including tournaments they were in) from 2006-2011. So I have see every away venue. Pitts home court is by far the best facility I have been.
However, MSG far and away the most majestic and historic place to play. No matter where you sit even if it is in the 400 section you have a great view of the court. The site lines in MSG are better than any stadium I have been to with the exception of small arenas. It is in the center of basketball USA there is a special atmosphere and ambiance when going to MSG. I have been to the new Brooklyn Arena this year and although it is extremely nice it does not have the same feel of hollowed ground that MSG exudes. As someone already said MSG is in a massive renovation and in fact I believe there are plans to put seating above the court for a birds eye view. This will be the first arena to try such a thing, to my knowledge.
Fenway and Wrigley arent the best looking or newest ballparks but they are 2 of the top 5 ballparks in all of baseball.
As to the tailgating thing. Do you know how many bars there are around Yankee stadium? Or anywhere in NYC boroughs for that matter? I have tailgated Yankee games in parking garages, its not that fun but when you go bar hopping around the stadium (I am not a Yankee fan FYI) its just as fun as tailgating. And the reason the Jets and GIants play in NJ is because there is no where in NYC to put a football stadium and as you say traffic. That is part of living in the greatest city in the world with the most traffic in the world.
I will agree most outside of NY hate NY and its because they are jealous and envious. I was born, raised and still live in CT but have also spent short stints in DC, MS, AL, TN, FL and AZ. DC is the only place you can compare to NY and they dont really have any negative things to say about NY.
The other places are just jealous. They cant go to NYC whenever they want so they hate the people and the place as a way to put up a wall. Are NYers cocky, arrogant balloon knots... Maybe to an outsider but when you live in/near the greatest city in the world you take on that aura.
MSG is the mecca of basketball. Nowhere else can ever challenge