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hatBeing on the floor for a game in front of Geno is not the same as playing for anyone else, nor is it the same as being on the scout team in practice. You said it in the bold text above.
The external pressure when I play tennis is many orders of magnitude less than what the Husky ladies endure, but the pressures I sometimes put on myself make it simple to miss shots in matches I make easily in clinics or against my wife.---
She'll be fine. She wants this. Just has to come to terms with it. Consider the Tina Charles story.
Now you are agreeing with my posting. But playing on one stage or being in front of one class is pretty much like the other; except when you have a hostile audience. \
Some of Z's audiences were friendly--except for Geno, possibly. Your assertions above fall in line with my original post---nerves (which are usually creating an internal story greater than the truth)/mental/wanting to please (whether that is to avoid the issues/trouble), trying too hard. All of which constitute pressure--and the greatest pressures usually come from within. \Geno uses that, or defeats the self doubt and tries to make one mentally stronger--because that is the true weakness.
Just for kicks---what external pressures did you have--or better were those pressures your perceived as external --coming from with in you? \
Some people can cope with external pressure unless they are physical --if you are trying to please, that's not external that is probably created by they way a person is raised--a family thing.
Think of the military that have on a daily basis ,some times live with external issues and then must perform at a high level --or die.
Thanks for the clarification--we probably agree more than you think.
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