The Izod is fine. I've seen plenty of basketball games there. And it's not that hard to get to. If you have no car, they send buses there from Penn Station. Same routing for Giants/Jets games, concerts, etc.
Being selfish, my first choice is MSG as it will get the best crowd, even if it’s 50/50 UConn and Duke. It’s easy to get fto from NYC and the NY, NJ, and LI suburbs as it sits on top of variosu train and subway lines. Plus, Grand Central is a 15 minute walk, so it’s not too bad for CT folks. Plus, it’s fracking MSG.
Barclay’s is nice (saw the UConn/Maryland game); but, it is a a pain in the neck to get to from NJ and CT and takes several connections to get to Brooklyn from NYC or any fo the suburbs outside of Long island.
My second choice is the Prudential Center (the Rock). The Rock has access to NJ transit, Amtrack, and NYC via the PATH subway line. Its realitvely easy to get to by car and parking is reasonable. That part of Newark is safe, esepcially when events are held. I have been to a few hockey games and a few UConn/Hall games there and never had any problem.
IZOD is old and worn out. It’s were take my kids to see Monster Jam and Seasme Street Live. Plus, it has limited mass transit connections. The Meadowlands does not have regular train service; but, NJ Transit does run special trains for certain events. Not sure a if this game would qualify. Driving in from Jersey is easy, esepcially as I know several back ways; but, getting to there from CT requires crossing the Hudson, which sucks.