Four comments from someone with no horse in this race --
1. Re Lady Vols - I might be interested in tnvolfan's response, but OTH, what a trademark! Lady Vol volleyball and softball have certainly been successful as well. Most teams, do you reallyknow if they are the "Lady ..." or not? Good branding, I think.
2. I know that the Tenn message board has had its moments, but in my experience, Tenn fans in person have been great. While I know I'm not a UConn fan, there are other programs - with no rivalry issues - where I attended away RU games and did not come away with a great opinion of the fans. For example, Iowa State and Duke fans were not hospitable. So I just put Tenn message board comments down to "rivalry based".
3. I don't think the Ball State game is relevant except as Icebear suggested - should Tennessee find itself in a similar situation. Players change. Yet, an emotional reaction in a like situation - maybe.
4 - Until the teams take the court, like was suggested earlier in the thread, it is just banter and guesswork. I suspect Tennessee will be better than many UConn fans claim and maybe not as good as they hope. I also suspect that Pat and her assistants will find a way to manage the minutes.
Oh - and only when you are talking Tennessee (and UConn) is an elite 8 departure somehow disappointing in the abstract (for the rest of us, it might be disappointing when it happens, but after the fact "great season". Just saying.