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The second part of your corollary is: If you move into an environment of established group/friends/teammates it is more difficult to find "friendship" easily and early.Here's my view. Sedona has stated that she has had a long history of being bullied. From experience I know that when this happens friends become very important. Once found, friends then become both your emotional anchor and a lynchpin for how you deal with and make future relationships. Especially when you find that one true friend. So yeah, I understand completely why Sedona wants to play with her besty, and I wouldn't blame her if she went to ND to play with her. However, once you realize your friend is your friend no matter the distance you can venture into new environments. The trick is making a second new besty that is compatible with your other friend, and Sedona, there's a whole bunch of fine young women in Storrs eager to be your new co-besty. Just imagine the spit you can talk after you play against one another.
Uconn with the influx of many new players and an open group of established players makes it easy to find a friend if you are a friend to all. Cliques are not usual at Uconn. Tell Sedona to come aboard she'll make a real friend soon--you all will be pushed to your limits (like boot camp) and like boot camp strong friendships shall be made on this Husky team.