Youse guys are different from the older gentlemen on the women's board. As someone pointed out earlier in this thread, you can call someone a name, insult his intelligence - and maybe his paternity - then go out for pizza and beers afterwards. All is forgiven and forgotten.
On the women's board, there are posters that will hate Stanford coach Tara Vanderveer forever for not playing Rebecca Lobo more on the 1996 Olympic Team or for her comment that she recruited five Nykesha Sales. Jeff Jacobs actually got death threats for
his criticism of the arrangement to get Sales the UConn scoring record. UConn women's fans never forgive and heaven knows they never forget. That's because it's
personal while the men's team fans know it's just sports.
Ah, well, I hate to use the analogy, but at the time I became a mod I was the mom of toddlers and their behavior was, ah, sorta kinda the same so I just used the same principles on the women's board. Teddy was onto something with that "talk softly and carry a big stick" quote. I'm not sure where that fits into your choices but there it is.