I am sorry but no one can say anything about what they would do until they are in that position and therefore what someone should do. I am presently counseling a guy in the local prison who is accused of child sexual abuse but the entanglement of divorce, step children, and numerous secondary events makes the accusations questionable but none the less the accused has been in jail for 5-6 months. Fact is McQueary did exactly what he was required to do and has cooperated with authorities whenever they asked him for information. Now he is able to express with a clarity he apparently could not express at the time what he saw. This is not unusual.
I understand what you are saying. And after having discussions with my wife and reflecting on this matter I have to agree with you.
But you won't get most people to understand where you're coming from. This issue is too emotionally appalling and personal for most of us.
In addition to the horrific acts on innocent children, there is the additional shock that people didn't take steps to stop those acts. My wife, who counseled a lot of sexual assault victims expressed to me something that made sense.
We act shocked when we find out that people do not respond to these incidences in a certain manner for two reasons. The first is we cannot believe that people react in a particular manner. The second is more subliminal. We're afraid we might act the same way and are horrified by that prospect.
In most of my wife's experiences with her clients there was a perpetrator of the acts and individuals who were in denial about the acts or took no action when they discovered them, particularly when they were personally invested with the perpetrator. I would guess other counselors have similar data to confirm this. As frightening as this may be, the reaction by the grad assistant and others at PSU is most likely the norm of human reaction when we are shocked and not prepared for an event. And that is as much a trigger for us as the actions of Sandusky and the reactions of PSU people to those incidences.
Anecdotally, when we see any tapes of people who are shocked by some set up, such as the show "Scare Tactics" or "Americas Funniest Videos" the prevalent reaction is for people to run away.
I'm not condoning Sandusky or any of those peripherally involved. All of the incidences will have to be reviewed and punishment would have to be administered if people were found to be guilty. But I can easily see why these things happen.
In spite of our awareness of these type of incidences, my wife and I are just as appalled by all this as everyone else and want to see justice prevail. That is also normal.