OkaForPrez
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God knows where this thread will go, but if there's one thing this board has in spades, its Lawyers, Divorced Men and Divorced Lawyer men, so I need advice. I've done as much independent research online as possible and while the variables that are considered are clear, there is no help for establishing precedent. Also hearing from the peanut gallery that CT leans 50/50 no matter what.
The details:
4 years, no kids, no debt, both have strong careers and incomes, completely financially independent.
I entered the marriage with 70% of the assets and have made 70% of the income during the life of the marriage. I'm 5 years older.
A true 50/50 split would theoretically be even more in her advantage than a a relative 50/50 given our age difference and the fact that I should be ahead in retirement savings etc never-mind its significant difference from what we've accumulated individually as one financial entity.
The divorce is amicable and we are negotiating well and will seek arbitration and joint council, but I still want to be aware of the doomsday scenario here. If something shifts rapidly and this does go to litigation, is it open and shut 50/50 despite being an equitable distribution state? Is there a range of likely outcomes given the information provided?
If you know who our resident lawyers are can you please tag them?
Good thing I'm already in this support group huh?
If you guys need me, I'll be over here.
The details:
4 years, no kids, no debt, both have strong careers and incomes, completely financially independent.
I entered the marriage with 70% of the assets and have made 70% of the income during the life of the marriage. I'm 5 years older.
A true 50/50 split would theoretically be even more in her advantage than a a relative 50/50 given our age difference and the fact that I should be ahead in retirement savings etc never-mind its significant difference from what we've accumulated individually as one financial entity.
The divorce is amicable and we are negotiating well and will seek arbitration and joint council, but I still want to be aware of the doomsday scenario here. If something shifts rapidly and this does go to litigation, is it open and shut 50/50 despite being an equitable distribution state? Is there a range of likely outcomes given the information provided?
If you know who our resident lawyers are can you please tag them?
Good thing I'm already in this support group huh?
If you guys need me, I'll be over here.