I made a similar complaint in the burger thread a few years ago and
@BigErnMcCracken turned me on to Connie and Teds. The first time I went I got the Rhode Island clam chowder and whole belly fried clams and it was like being transported back to Sailor Eds in Mystic when I was a kid. I haven't been to Blue Point, but I can only tell you Connie and Teds is excellent. It sucks we have to pay $24 for whole belly clams that would cost about 10 or 12 in Connecticut, but at least you get the real deal.
In terms of fresh - they fly stuff in daily. It's very fresh. Even though the Rhode Island chowda is good, their New England is just about the best I've ever had. The whole belly fried clams are like being on The Cape. Plan to spend a good bit, but if you want NE quality clams and soup, they do deliver. I haven't tried the lobster roll, but the steamers are also very good, if not a bit too large. I prefer smaller/sweeter, but they are still like being transported to New England.