I loved this piece from one of John's columns leading up to the 1000 career game, re the issue with recruits coming in:
“We were having practice, he got mad at us, he left and then he came back,” said Tammi Sweet, a junior in 1985-86. “He was upset that we weren’t hustling. Finally, it was just me and him there. He said to me, ‘You weren’t working hard enough,’ I looked at him and said, ‘My high school coach would be appalled to hear what you are saying to me; there is no one on this court that is working harder than I.
“He didn’t skip a beat. He looked right at me and said, ‘Yeah, but are you working as hard as you can.’ I sent him a card many years after I graduated to tell him what a pivotal moment for me because it was true. It was so profound in that moment. And that is when he got my respect. That’s when I decided that I would follow him.”
On the language issue - I am on the older side, and I have to say that a number of athletes in college and in the pros bother me with their use of the English language. A lot of it is societal and a changing definition of acceptable usage, but it does still matter in 'professional' careers. The difference between real and really has almost been lost for example. And while first and foremost a coach needs to be a good communicator and it appears KO is, as head and face of a program being articulate as well is a very good thing.