I'm not sure what's worse, the people who make war analogies and post Geno Auriemma motivational videos every time a kid leaves, or the ones who are adamant that we are recruiting "the wrong type of players."
Boat de-committed twice before he got here and nearly left every year he was at UConn. He actually left West Virginia because he didn't want to compete for minutes. DeAndre almost transferred after his freshman year. "Neils" almost turned pro in Germany. Shabazz thought about leaving when Calhoun retired and almost fought everyone on the team during the 2012 season.
The amount of romanticism that is assigned to college sports by this board is insufferable. Kids commit for themselves and they stay for themselves. It's always about yourself until the ball is tossed into the air in November. Then, suddenly you share a common goal with a dozen other guys and you become a family, not because you listened and took notes like a good little boy when coach was lecturing you on the value of teamwork when you were a kid, but because you need each other.
Kid is clearly leaving because of the Miller situation. That's his right, and it's not a decision that is more or any less arbitrary than others that have been made in the last month (if you want to criticize somebody, direct it towards the guy making millions who decided to fire his assistant coach).
Vital will probably come back because now there are minutes open for him. Adams will come back because he's not good enough to play in the NBA. Larrier will come back because he likes the Dairy bar or whatever other stupid reasons people have. They'll all be hailed as guys who "bleed blue" and it will be stupid but ultimately it won't matter because they'll be here and we'll love them because of it.