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Innocent until proven guilty. Let's not jump the gun.If he's guilty I dont want him back
For me it's a qualified maybe on the guilty verdict. It would depend on what he is really guilty of doing. We know for sure he didn't leave when the campus police asked him to leave. At least that was what was reported. Only then did they book him for hitting the girl. It seems if he struck her, and the campus police knew that, they wouldn't have given him the option to leave. They would have booked him right away.If he's guilty I dont want him back
Totally depends on what he is guilty or not guilty of. Let's wait for the facts before passing judgement. If he's guilty of being stupid at 5am in something that is not a huge deal, why wouldn't you want him back. Most everyone, particularly 20 year old college kids, deserves a second chance.If he's guilty I dont want him back
Was hoping it was gonna be a Bazz quote from the thread title.
..let he who is without guilt cast the first stone.If he's guilty of being stupid at 5am ....
Source?We know for sure he didn't leave when the campus police asked him to leave.
Source?
My understanding is that the GF asked him to leave and he wouldn't. That makes it a criminal trespass. The cops wouldn't "ask" him to leave, in any case. She'd say, "he hit me" and the cuffs would be on before you could say, "farfehgnuggen."
I want him back regardless of what happened. We're not running a sissy factory here, and at the end of the day, if the GF has forgiven him, who are you not to?
Worse than you think.So IF he did strike her; it's ok with you, as long as she's ok with it. I want to make sure I'm not misinterpreting what you are saying?
Yikes.Worse than you think.
I want him back whatever she thinks.
Guy was drunk and passionate and shoved her. Meh. I could care less. It's the wee-wee metrosexual, PC, pussified world we live in where this gets turned into the guy is a serial abuser.
If he punched some dude in a bar fight and broke his eye socket, he'd get more support than he is getting for shoving his girl.
Why is that? Some archaic notion that shoving a woman is somehow worse than aggravated assault on a man? Silly. Sexist. Needs to be buried.
The assessment should always be gender independent. What were the sizes/strengths of the two parties? How much force was used? What damage was done?
He shoved her and her glasses fell off. Please. Call me when he actually "hits" somebody and leaves a mark.
I merely pointed out that, if she has no issue with it, why should anybody else? Are you implying that she is too stupid or weak to properly assess what happened?
How about with a male? Is there a situation where it's okay to land the first shove/punch/hit against a male?Agree to disagree. Never a reason to get physical with a female.