This may be one of your best posts ever. Agree with your take...and going further, half or more of the people going to games aren't even paying attention. They are eating, drinking, chatting with friends, texting, posting on facebook or Instagram or Twitter. "Look at me, I'm at a game"...meanwhile somebody just turned a spectacular double play and they didn't even notice. The NFL is really the only exception to this I've seen in New England. People watch the games, both live and on TV and will even watch teams that aren't their team. Hockey is probably next best...in terms of the actual core fans paying attention to the game.
College football isn't part of the fabric of our culture in New England. BC has the same problem we do...it does ok when it is winning, but it isn't a must attend/must watch for very many. Things are different in Nebraska, Alabama, Oklahoma, South Carolina... You schedule your life around Saturday games in those places. I think it will be very hard to change that, and it starts with new generations of UConn grads who went to games every Saturday as students. As I've said before, moving all HS football to Friday night would help give one of our best natural audiences a chance to go to games.