What part do would you "dislike"? I am not wishing the kid any ill will, but what the hell man? You quit after 3 weeks because you're down the depth chart and away from home? What am I missing here?
I think you're missing the fact that you might MIGHT just be right. Keep in mind it's all an assumption.
And if so, that your assumption is correct, your response is totally out of line, because you're berating an 18 year old kid for making a good decision for himself, and furthermore, this is division 1A college football, not BUD/S, and even so, there's no difference between the two, as it comes to when a person realizes that it doesn't fit. ANd if it doesn't fit, a voluntary dropout is always preferable to an involuntary dropout as to future choices and course of action, and there is no way to predict who is going to make it, and who won't for either program - for either scenario.
It's up to the individual what to make of the experience, and I hope it turns out to be a life changing moment, for the better.
Cory Jasudowich and Richard Lagow - those are the only two names we know for attrition due to voluntary drop out, because they're high profile, I'm quite sure there are more kids that have strapped on pads in the past month, that have experienced the 2013 UCONN football program, and are now choosing different paths.
I hope it works out for the best, for all of them. This is division 1A football. Man out, next in line - step up.