I agree that Stewart brings more to the table and Kiah needs to want to fight for more minutes or go home this summer. She has such a huge upside......Where is her father?.........
I was with you, up until "where is her father?". With some kids, this can be part of the problem (I have no idea whether it is with Kiah - based on the public silence, I suspect that it is
not part of the problem). Parents are appropriately involved during the recruiting of high school students. But, the decision of where to go should be the students', not the parent's. And, a parent should be very, very, reluctant to get between a player (particularly a non-freshman) and the coaching staff.
Most of us, myself included, refer to the players as "kids". I worked on college campuses for many years, and staff often refers to "the kids". Yet, legally, in just about every way, they aren't kids - they're adults, and need to function on their own, independently. I've long thought of college as "being a grown-up, with a safety net." Kiah should not be depending on her dad, or any other relation, to ride to her rescue (if needed). Lend a sympathic ear, absolutely, and perhaps a shoulder to lean on - but not intervene (unless health/safety/legal lines are crossed).
College students are at a weird stage, in this country. They can legally smoke, marry, procreate, go to war (which means kill or be killed), drive - and some of them can "legally" drink. They've got adult rights and responsibilities - and that means learning to fight your own battles appropriately, and deal with life's obstacles. Yet, sometimes they'd prefer to revert back to being dependent, and have somebody else deal with the tough stuff. Sometimes, we parents want them to regress - we hate to seem them suffer & struggle, so, we want to step in and "make it better" for them. Again, with a few specific exceptions, everybody is better off in the long run, if Mom & Dad stay out of it, and let "the kids" grow up.