i played a sport... not basketball.
to answer your questions.
- if Calhoun was an average coach and UConn was still a mediocre sports school, i probably would have gone elsewhere. the school was on par with UMass and URI's before Calhoun.
- obviously if the persons name was John Brown instead of Jim Calhoun and everything turned out identical, i'd have made the same choice. But it wasn't John Brown or Dee Rowe or any other previous or hypothetical UConn figure... it was Calhoun.
- as for your last comment... once a foundation is built, the ability to maintain is far easier. if you are a poor kid your whole life and then you invent something and make millions you can logically expect the rest of your family down the lines to be in better financial shape because of what you established, with or without you there. another example would be Steve Jobs dying. Apple may suffer eventually but the foundation is already there for them to be a successful company, the heavy lifting has been done.
my guess is that you're either very young or not very familiar with the history of UConn. i don't mean that as a knock on you, but it's the only logical thing i can come up with to rationalize your stance.