I have been to OKC but not Tulsa. I do know this when comparing Tulsa to Hartford. Hartford is 90 to 100 minutes from Boston, 2.5 hours to NYC, 1 hour to the Atlantic Ocean and HALF HOUR TO STORRS.
Advantage Hartford.
So let me get this straight - you've never been to the place you're critiquing - good plan.
So I'll entertain this because it's simply humorous.
Sure geographic advantage for driving, but boy that's a narrow definition. My family for generations is from Hartford, like DAR generations and we've had some successful businesses grow in Hartford, so I have an irrational fondness for it, but the city is not great by any definition when taken on it's own merits - always a tough sell when you say ......well there's nothing to do here, but X is an hour away.
It sounds oddly like the pitch Salisbury tried to recruit me with back in the day and when I said "what the hell is there to do here" the answer was "Ocean City is a half hour away" - "ah, yeah, no thanks"
As I said earlier there's plenty of good restaurants, bars, outdoor activities and playing Southern Hills or the Golf Club of Oklahoma is a treat. A lot of wealth in Tulsa. There are also plenty of real areas. I split time between NYC and Upstate NY, so obviously I prefer the Northeast to the midwest (anywhere), but there are definite advantages to living in the midwest be it Tulsa, OKC, KC, Dallas, Chicago, etc.
I was in Tulsa 2 days a week for 5 years - it's a 30 minute flight from KC so I have some real Tulsa experience for better or worse (edit)