Not all losses are equal! There are good losses and bad losses, and losses that are in-between, all depending on the nature of the team. Obviously Vince Lombardi would disagree.
Unlike those (many?) on here who love to break out the dreaded "Fan of Winning" moniker whenever they see Boneyarders bellyache after a loss or a poor outing, my reaction to games is based more on how well we play up to our potential, keeping in mind that there is obviously no such thing as a perfect game. That's never my expectation.
For most of the past 8 years, we've had outstanding, truly dominant teams with noticeably more talented players than our opponent. A veritable Golden Age of UCONN basketball, really. Rare exceptions where we have not *clearly* had the best squad include some Baylor games with O. Sims and BG, the odd Stanford game, and one or two others. Case in point - when we played Baylor tough at their place a few years back in the BG/OSims era, with KML having a great first half, I didn't gripe so much as wince when we played tight at the end and lost. We showed that we could have done it and we put a real scare into Mulkey's squad. I believe the final margin was in the single digits. I felt good about the statement the team made with that effort, despite the loss. Losing to St. John's was a different story. That was not a good performance. A game we should really have won. Doesn't mean the team deserved to be thrown under the bus, so for those who saw comments that sounded like bus-throwing, I would agree that those comments were out of line. However, after a bad loss a fair amount of fan(atical) behavior should not be a surprise in the world of big-time sports. I regard UCONN WBB as a big-time sport, though many out there would disagree.
Bottom line -- as Geno has said of late, when we play our "A" game there's not been much that anyone can really do. A corollary to this would be Geno's famous "I've got (Dee, Maya, Stewie) and they don't" line. So when those teams lose, it's either because the other team went wild and played the game of their life, in which case you tip your hat, or we had a crappy game, at which point some sports fans (fan is short for "fanatic," not "cheerleader") will spout off. This is in fact the norm in the world of sports, college included (not just pro). This is not to excuse personal attacks, low blows, or perspectives that are completely unreasonable given the differences between collegiate student athletes and pro athletes.
This year, I will be rooting for us to do as well as we can, individually and as a team (just like everyone here) in the belief that we'll get a lot better by March/April and that we will have something to say about who is in the Final Four. We will still have a ton of wins, but this team will likely drop several games even when they have played well (not just "played hard" ... all UCONN squads play hard for 40 minutes). So if we lose games and play like , yeah I'll probably say or think some things that many BYers wouldn't like to hear, just as I did in college when our men's BB team would lay an egg -- or the football team, which produced many eggs. This behavior was the norm in my experience, in the Big 12 at least (Big 8 back then).
YMMV