It wasn't a well refereed game. It was a sloppy game that UCONN should have put out of reach with five or so minutes left in the game. They just couldn't hit the open shots and the bunnies all day.
I didn't see the whole scene live, but I saw it on ESPN. I thought the official had no business getting up in his face. I couldn't read their lips till the end when Valentine was walking away and Cronin said "That's complete bull$hit and you know it". As was pointed out, I'd hate it if an official did that to Ollie. And when Katz interviewed Cronin after the game, Cronin made a great point saying essentially you'd never see an official doing that to Krapchevsky, Boeheim, etc etc.