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I knew a handful of dookies from playing against the club soccer team while in Chapel Hill, and worked with a few grad students. They were all surprisingly cool people.

However, my wife worked at duke hospital and those are some of the worst people I've ever met...
 
Basically, looking at schools with good pre-med programs and good financial aid. Pomona appeared to be the best west coast liberal arts option. He is not set on an actual major but likes Physics as one possibility. I like the Claremont schools due to the ability to take classes at the sister schools like Harvey Mudd for Physics. One interesting option that popped up is Rice. Another major that interests him is exercise science or Kinesiology and Rice is one of the best schools that offers it. It may be a little too hot though as he likes to run.
The ability to take classes at the other 5 Claremont Colleges is huge. Harvey Mudd has great engineering, math, physics and other specialized sciences. Claremont McKenna has great business classes (in the past I've heard they are better than Harvard). Pitzer and Scripps have top social science classes and Pomona is obviously top notch in all liberal arts and just a great education in general. Certainly the options for classes are like being in small college while delivering university level opportunities.

Obviously I'm a big proponent.
 
It is interesting. On one hand you would think their desire for geographic diversity would make it easier for east coast kids. On the other hand, yield is a big deal to these schools and kids to tend to stay close to home. The question is, would applying early action negate the yield issue? Probably not as it is non-binding at Stanford.

Thanks for that tidbit of data! It is pretty revealing.

I think it makes it easier for kids in North Dakota and Oklahoma. They've got no problem hitting their quota of New Yorkers or Connecticut kids.
 
The ability to take classes at the other 5 Claremont Colleges is huge. Harvey Mudd has great engineering, math, physics and other specialized sciences. Claremont McKenna has great business classes (in the past I've heard they are better than Harvard). Pitzer and Scripps have top social science classes and Pomona is obviously top notch in all liberal arts and just a great education in general. Certainly the options for classes are like being in small college while delivering university level opportunities.

Obviously I'm a big proponent.

We've got a family friend whose kid is at Harvard in large part because he didn't get in to Harvey Mudd.
 
The ability to take classes at the other 5 Claremont Colleges is huge. Harvey Mudd has great engineering, math, physics and other specialized sciences. Claremont McKenna has great business classes (in the past I've heard they are better than Harvard). Pitzer and Scripps have top social science classes and Pomona is obviously top notch in all liberal arts and just a great education in general. Certainly the options for classes are like being in small college while delivering university level opportunities.

Obviously I'm a big proponent.
Are you originally from CT?
 
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If he likes the warmer weather and a P5 atmosphere, Vanderbilt is probably a baby step behind Puke academically but the girls are way, way better and Nashville beats Raleigh any day. Tulane also comes to mind and he would get to go to various Husky games until we are rescued.
Yep, Vandy is on the list. His school band is going to Nashville in the spring so he will get to visit while down there.
I have never been to Raleigh but I can tell you that Duke does not rate well for campus safety. It is probably the biggest negative and took me by surprise.
 
If he can get into Duke would Yale be a reach? Yale undergrads are top notch. At Duke you better have a trust fund, a prep school diploma and drive a BMW, or be from a foreign country.
 
It is interesting that you mentioned your son liking the smaller liberal arts schools. My son attended a basketball clinic at Williams last summer and really liked it. However, he also likes warmer weather and it is COLD at Williams.
Warmer weather, good private school alternatives to Pook: Vandy, Wake, Davidson, Emory, Tulane, Stanford?
 
Yep, Vandy is on the list. His school band is going to Nashville in the spring so he will get to visit while down there.
I have never been to Raleigh but I can tell you that Duke does not rate well for campus safety. It is probably the biggest negative and took me by surprise.
Duke is in a really crappy area. Campus is beautiful, but take one step off and you're in some rough neighborhoods. Durham is actually going through a gentrification in the downtown area, but the majority of it is still not somewhere you want to spend much time. Raleigh is much nicer, but the downtown area can get a little dicey at times which is pretty much the case for any large city. Chapel hill is definitely the gem of the triangle.

While you're rooting around down south why not check out charlottesville? School is just as good, in a much better area, and you'll get a pretty comparable level of douchey-ness among the undergrads
 
Are you originally from CT?
Yes - my first 5 years of life were in Bristol and the next 8 years in Coventry and the final four years in Windsor at Loomis Chaffee before I sent sail to Pomona College in Claremont.
 
Yes - my first 5 years of life were in Bristol and the next 8 years in Coventry and the final four years in Windsor at Loomis Chaffee before I sent sail to Pomona College in Claremont.
What is it like to be that far away from home for college?
 
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What is it like to be that far away from home for college?
It was pretty easy for me because I went to Loomis as a boarding student so I was already used to being without my folks around all the time and knowing how to study, etc. I was also really independent to begin with. When I was 17 I flew out to LA by myself to make the final decision between Oxi and Pomona. It was a big challenge for a lot of people around me. My roommate didn't make it through the year.

I wouldn't change it for me. I loved it. But your mileage may vary. It really depends on your kid and how well they cope in new situations, get along with new people, can rely on themselves, have some semblance of self control, etc.
 
While you're rooting around down south why not check out charlottesville? School is just as good, in a much better area, and you'll get a pretty comparable level of douchey-ness among the undergrads
Speaking of Stanford and UVA, the valedictorian of my son's class applied to Stanford because both of her parents went there. Even with the legacy she still didn't get in and she ended up going to UVA. Also, two daughters of a good friend of mine are both at UVA and they love it.
 
Yep, Vandy is on the list. His school band is going to Nashville in the spring so he will get to visit while down there.
I have never been to Raleigh but I can tell you that Duke does not rate well for campus safety. It is probably the biggest negative and took me by surprise.
Have to say I was disappointed in Vandy when we visited. UVa on the other hand was a favorite.
 
Speaking of Stanford and UVA, the valedictorian of my son's class applied to Stanford because both of her parents went there. Even with the legacy she still didn't get in and she ended up going to UVA. Also, two daughters of a good friend of mine are both at UVA and they love it.
IIRC Stanford is the most difficult undergrad acceptance in the country, i.e., it's the most selective. And it's beautiful and awesome. If your kid gets in there, s/he goes. Period.

UVA is also beautiful and a great school. Tough to be accepted from out of state, but nothing like Stanford.

As for the OP, I'd be fine if one of my kids was interested in Duke. I doubt it would be the case, but it would be the least of my worries if it was on the list for one of them.
 
Have to say I was disappointed in Vandy when we visited. UVa on the other hand was a favorite.
Yeah, I doubt Vandy will make the final cut when it comes time to filling out applications but that will depend on how he likes his visit there. The problem with out-of-state state schools is that the financial aid package is usually not as good as the top private schools with big endowments. My older son got into some good state school schools but he ended up at an Ivy because it was both cheaper and a better option. UVa was not one of the schools he applied to, however, so it might be better for financial aid than the ones he did apply to (Illinois, Purdue, Ga Tech, Penn State). If the younger one was to apply to an out of state school, the ones that are currently under consideration are Washington and UNC with Pitt as a wildcard due to its BS/MD program. I think Pitt is known for better financial aid than most. But it isn't a great school overall so, if he decides to drop the MD idea, he may have to transfer out of there, which sucks.
 
It was pretty easy for me because I went to Loomis as a boarding student so I was already used to being without my folks around all the time and knowing how to study, etc. I was also really independent to begin with. When I was 17 I flew out to LA by myself to make the final decision between Oxi and Pomona. It was a big challenge for a lot of people around me. My roommate didn't make it through the year.

I wouldn't change it for me. I loved it. But your mileage may vary. It really depends on your kid and how well they cope in new situations, get along with new people, can rely on themselves, have some semblance of self control, etc.
Yeah, the problem is, you don't know how a kid will respond until they get into the situation. I guess, if he really thinks he will like it, you give it a shot and transfer if it doesn't work out.
 
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I'm prepping my 7th grader now. I told him I would be extremely proud of him for getting into Puke, but in no way, shape or form should he bring me home anything with their name or logo. I will not wear it. The same went for BC. For 'cuse I left out the proud part and just said don't bring me home any of their crap.
 
Remember the time North Carolina dudes tea bagged reggie love when he passed out at a frat? Good times.
If they have an Arby's August has been there.
So UNC and Arby's comes up in the same thread giving me the opportunity to post that I have a ticket from the Ladysmith Black Mambazo concert I attended last night at the Diana Wortham Theatre in Asheville.

They're an acapella group from South Africa (hence UNC reference). Tickets were $50 apiece. The Diana Wortham Theatre is a cultural theatre with really good performances but they've outdone themselves by placing on the backs of tickets an Arby's coupon for a "Free Roast Beef Classic Sandwich with the purchase of any sandwich at equal or greater value".

My wife wondered why I laughed when I saw that coupon. If you'd like me to mail you the ticket August give me a pm.
 
I'm prepping my 7th grader now. I told him I would be extremely proud of him for getting into Puke, but in no way, shape or form should he bring me home anything with their name or logo. I will not wear it. The same went for BC. For 'cuse I left out the proud part and just said don't bring me home any of their crap.

Agree about BC and Duke. My daughter wants communications and Syracuse has one of the best in the country so I'd have to be proud, but I'm safe for now because she didn't apply for undergrad and is keeping it in view for masters instead down the road.
Yeah, I doubt Vandy will make the final cut when it comes time to filling out applications but that will depend on how he likes his visit there. The problem with out-of-state state schools is that the financial aid package is usually not as good as the top private schools with big endowments. My older son got into some good state school schools but he ended up at an Ivy because it was both cheaper and a better option. UVa was not one of the schools he applied to, however, so it might be better for financial aid than the ones he did apply to (Illinois, Purdue, Ga Tech, Penn State). If the younger one was to apply to an out of state school, the ones that are currently under consideration are Washington and UNC with Pitt as a wildcard due to its BS/MD program. I think Pitt is known for better financial aid than most. But it isn't a great school overall so, if he decides to drop the MD idea, he may have to transfer out of there, which sucks.

It's no Ivy, but Pitt is no slouch as a university, either. It's surprisingly high on my daughter's remaining list right now and we are visiting to check it out in a few weeks for an accepted student open house. It's one of only a couple schools to which she applied sight unseen, mostly out of curiosity about the city. If she was a STEM student it would probably be a no-brainer, as it's very strong and incredibly accomplished in those fields going back literally hundreds of years.

She was also accepted to UConn (among others) but I can see many advantages for her to see what Pittsburgh offers instead. I've been reading up on the school and have been impressed; I also know a few alumni and they are really smart, happy, successful and independent people, so that's made me even more curious. She knows a current student from our town who loves it, so of course that has made her more curious.

Coincidentally, it looks like we're going to be there for opening day at PNC Park, so that's a bonus to be able to check that out. I've only been to the city twice before, for work almost twenty years ago, and I didn't make it to the ballpark. I did like what I saw of the city though, and apparently it's been on a bit of a boom in recent years--primarily based on its reputation as a great place to live. That's a big factor for me, as I'd like her to experience other places that may provide more opportunity for her than CT. I don't know if you can say the same about the others you list (Illinois, Purdue, Ga Tech, Penn State).
 
Agree about BC and Duke. My daughter wants communications and Syracuse has one of the best in the country so I'd have to be proud, but I'm safe for now because she didn't apply for undergrad and is keeping it in view for masters instead down the road.


It's no Ivy, but Pitt is no slouch as a university, either. It's surprisingly high on my daughter's remaining list right now and we are visiting to check it out in a few weeks for an accepted student open house. It's one of only a couple schools to which she applied sight unseen, mostly out of curiosity about the city. If she was a STEM student it would probably be a no-brainer, as it's very strong and incredibly accomplished in those fields going back literally hundreds of years.

She was also accepted to UConn (among others) but I can see many advantages for her to see what Pittsburgh offers instead. I've been reading up on the school and have been impressed; I also know a few alumni and they are really smart, happy, successful and independent people, so that's made me even more curious. She knows a current student from our town who loves it, so of course that has made her more curious.

Coincidentally, it looks like we're going to be there for opening day at PNC Park, so that's a bonus to be able to check that out. I've only been to the city twice before, for work almost twenty years ago, and I didn't make it to the ballpark. I did like what I saw of the city though, and apparently it's been on a bit of a boom in recent years--primarily based on its reputation as a great place to live. That's a big factor for me, as I'd like her to experience other places that may provide more opportunity for her than CT. I don't know if you can say the same about the others you list (Illinois, Purdue, Ga Tech, Penn State).
Pitt, like a lot of other similar schools, can be great choices for specific kids. The main thing I learned with child #1 is that you have to base an evaluation of the academics on the fields that the kid is potentially interested in and not some generic all encompassing rating. Some schools are pretty good overall but great in a few things and those could be the things that matter to the kid. But you can't get too focused either as they may change their major (mine did) so you have to look at all the potential majors they are interested in. I knew child #1 was going into an engineering field but I knew that he might change his mind on which one exactly when he got there. So we compiled a list of schools that were strong in the major he thought he wanted and narrowed it down based on the schools that were good in engineering in general, just in case. Child #2 is proving to be tougher as he thinks he wants pre-med but he doesn't know what to major in exactly. Maybe physics, maybe something like kinesiology or exercise science, maybe something completely different.
 
It was pretty easy for me because I went to Loomis as a boarding student so I was already used to being without my folks around all the time and knowing how to study, etc. I was also really independent to begin with. When I was 17 I flew out to LA by myself to make the final decision between Oxi and Pomona. It was a big challenge for a lot of people around me. My roommate didn't make it through the year.

I wouldn't change it for me. I loved it. But your mileage may vary. It really depends on your kid and how well they cope in new situations, get along with new people, can rely on themselves, have some semblance of self control, etc.
Another question about Pomona. I found some data on political leanings of various colleges and there is also information out there about free speech policies. It looks like Pomona is more balanced than most schools. Did you find that to be true?
 
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Daughter currently waiting for her decision from Duke, UNC, and Wake Forest in NC. She has already gotten into UConn, BC, Villanova, UMD, and UVA. Also waiting on Georgetown, Vandy, and Ivy's. I am pushing for UConn though of course.
 
Basically, looking at schools with good pre-med programs and good financial aid. Pomona appeared to be the best west coast liberal arts option. He is not set on an actual major but likes Physics as one possibility. I like the Claremont schools due to the ability to take classes at the sister schools like Harvey Mudd for Physics. One interesting option that popped up is Rice. Another major that interests him is exercise science or Kinesiology and Rice is one of the best schools that offers it. It may be a little too hot though as he likes to run.

Rice is excellent. But honestly, for any kid who is pre-anything (med or law) I'd say, save the cash and go public. Get good grades there, and do the grad work at Duke or similar. Of course if you get a good scholarship offer, that changes things.
Have you looked at Vanderbilt? Nashville has a similar climate, and it's a little less D-baggy than Duke.
 
Not compared to Stanford. ;)
Believe it or not, when you include international students, there are more at Duke than Stanford. They are both very high, mind you, but Duke actually has more.
 
Rice is excellent. But honestly, for any kid who is pre-anything (med or law) I'd say, save the cash and go public. Get good grades there, and do the grad work at Duke or similar. Of course if you get a good scholarship offer, that changes things.
Have you looked at Vanderbilt? Nashville has a similar climate, and it's a little less D-baggy than Duke.
I loathe the idea of a trip to Houston this summer but Rice is compelling enough to justify a visit. And we do have Stony Brook on the list. I wish we lived in a state with better state schools but Stony Brook is still decent and, yes, WAY cheaper. Stony Brook also has a BS/MD program and their med school is rated slightly higher than UConn's which is already pretty high.
 
I loathe the idea of a trip to Houston this summer but Rice is compelling enough to justify a visit. And we do have Stony Brook on the list. I wish we lived in a state with better state schools but Stony Brook is still decent and, yes, WAY cheaper. Stony Brook also has a BS/MD program and their med school is rated slightly higher than UConn's which is already pretty high.
Beware of class size and course availability at Stony Brook. IIRC from my research, they had well above average class size, and below average 4-year graduation rates, reportedly due in large part to the difficulty enrolling in the courses required to graduate.
 
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