No, actually, DaddyChoc, she doesn't have to kiss anything of Geno's.
What she should be modeling for her team, fans, the university, and most importantly, herself, is personal responsibility. She's the freaking head coach, and a pretty fair one, at that!
I understand how the human animal works. We all have pictures of how the world should be, and if the external 'reality' matches our pictures , we are happy. That is why a game, where the 'reality is a given, everyone agrees it was 72-61, produces joy, nay, euphoria, in UConn fans, but pain and distress in ND fans. Same score, different pictures, different reactions, determined by the individual's internal pictures of how the world should be.
If the picture doesn't match, then, to the degree that the picture is important, we will see strong negative emotions, whose sole purpose is to get the world to be the way we want it. That is what we saw last night with Muffet. She thought she would win. Really, really thought she would win, and the gap between how it was and how she wanted it was too big for her to behave like the intelligent, competent individual that she is.
And so she whined a bit because the world shouldn't be how it is.
But she is better than that, and I'm sorry to see her react the way she did. Not because beating UConn isn't important, but because I think she knows there is way more important snow out there right now than WcBB.